Boyfriend likes it when other guys flirt with me. Is this normal? Do other guys think the same?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend told me that he likes it when other guys flirt with me / chat me up. I am not the type of girl that goes out looking for male attention to make my boyfriend jealous, I just sometimes get it without asking for it like all girls. But my boyfriend told me he actually enjoys seeing me getting attention from other guys and sometimes it even turns him on! I've only ever had boyfriends that got jealous so this is a bit unusual for me. Any guys feel the same? Any girls been told this by their boyfriends?

[lauren02]

My boyfriend is like that a tiny bit, not to the extent he gets turned on. But he says he loves it when guys want me or think I'm hot, because I'm all his, and they can't have me.

It is possessive, but I don't think it's twisted as someone said below. I quite like it when he's a little bit possessive though to be honest.

[Asker]

this is more or less what my boyfriend said too. I can't decide if I like it or not tho!

[slipslender]

i never experienced that. my exes hated it when I got hit on.

[brown1411]

some people choose a person depending on how much in demand they are or depending how desirable they are to other boys and girls and I think such people are a waste of time they don't really date you for what sort of a person you are, they date you cause others want to date you. its stupid and shallow.

[Anonymous]

Sounds to me like he sees you as a possession. He see you like a fancy sports car that other guys look at and envy, and he gets off by owning something other guys want. Bit twisted to me.

[sixstring]

No I hate it.

[Anonymous]

He has some mind problem or he is not fully interested in you.