What's the difference between a simp and a man that puts women on a pedestal?

[Chthou95]

[ohsheeT]

The man that puts her on the pedestal is probably married to her and he knows how to get along and he knows what he has to do to make the relationship work with peace of mind


The other guy , the one that you call a simp he's probably single, has a good heart and sees that she needs help. So he's gonna be there to help because
There's always going to be a lazy jealous fat fuck that should be helping her but he's to fat to lazy. .. and is jealous , so the only difference is he's gonna call the guy is simp

8 out of 10 times he's just a good man doing a good deed

The other 2 out of the 10 well most of them are what they are and do what they do sometimes for the wrong reasons. But that's none of my business and I definitely don't need to call him a name because he's still helping the girl out or whomever so it is what it is another big deal to me

Because I have many friends that are girls\n And I help them, so I guess I'm the simple. Also, like to put women on pedestals, because that's where they belong, if they're good women, not a big deal either to me. It's who\n I am, that's what I do. If I have the time

[MikeMcMansion]

A simp might only put a certain woman on a pedestal (or one at a time, at the least) and only for a brief amount of time, and maybe only to please his little head. And wa-la, post-nut-clarity kicks in and he’s guilt ridden like a desperate addict.

Simps have many forms, they often do put almost all women on pedestals. This does seem to be the running theme.

I think it would extremely rare to honestly say a man is “simping” for his loyal wife, especially one that had only his children. He could be too submissive to her and such, like taking abuse and what have you.

[MikeMcMansion]

So to answer your question in full, there is no difference.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to spice things up and help you navigate these terms that get thrown around a lot! 😉

A 'simp' is often someone who excessively flatters or gives attention with hopes of winning a heart, sometimes losing self-respect in the process. A guy putting a woman on a pedestal admires and respects her but keeps mutual respect in the mix. It’s all about balance and genuine connection without losing yourself or ignoring the potential red flags! 💕

[Chazmatazz269]

A simp has no self respect and puts women on a pedestal who either don’t deserve it or who don’t return the respect and admiration; frequently both.
A self respecting man will only put a woman who has earned it on a pedestal. It’s rare, but there are true “king and queen” dynamics out there.

[MrOracle]

They are the same. Both think they can make up for a lack of other qualities by being "extra nice", far beyond the point of being a pushover. They believe that they will eventually win over the girl, but she is only using him and will keep using him until he is either depleted or he grows some self-worth and ends it.

[Twalli]

Simps are like people who subscribe to Pokimane on the highest tier and cancel it if they think she has a boyfriend. They are so enamored with her and somehow have deluded themselves into believing that she'll notice and be attracted to them.
Putting women on a pedestal isn't fueled by a delusion. You see them as better than men, so you treat them better.

[DonaldDarko]

A simp lets women use him and give him nothing in return. A man who puts women on a pedestal just doesn't understand women or doesn't care what they're like.

[Bricealan]

@Chthou95 The terminology used on this site, is confounding, and seems to have it's own life on GAG' "Simp", "A Karen" ... good god what planet are those terms used?

[Chthou95]

Welcome to 2025 Mr gen x

[Bricealan]

@chthou95I I know you think it is 'clever' and Contemporary' to use all of those idiot terms ESPECIALLY "Simp". For god's sake be an adult.

[Bricealan]

@Chthou95 Why do internet 'children" think that kind of talk makes them contemporarily "Chic"?

[MikeMcMansion]

The revision of the word simp is an essential one, it has already overshadowed the antiquated “simpleton” use in the vernacular.

Language evolves adjacent to culture. I agree that the world is becoming a bit ugly and misguided. When I hear guys my age unironically use the z-tard terminology like, rizz, aura, mog, and the suffix “maxxing” after a verb it makes my aura cringe ngl. These 304s and chuds are chopped af

[Chthou95]

The word simp isn't anything new. People have been using it for years. You disliking it or thinking it's childish is irrelevant

[Telekinetic-Potato]

One is a give and take relationship the other is born from lust

[dougeats]

A simp is whipped a guy who puts a woman on a pedestal is in love

[Miristheiss]

They are pretty similar.

[Chayce]

Both mean the same thing.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Degree, not kind.