From what I understand is that a simp does stuff for the woman when she doesn't do stuff for him. It is a very one sided thing. He is treated badly, but he has no pride or shame. He is often desperate, undesired by most, and has pathetic behavior.
A man treating his woman well is when in a relationship and she ALSO treats him well. They both do things for each other in the relationship, are respectful to each other and consider each other's feelings before making decisions.
And of course there are low quality user/abusive women that claim people that don't like simps are "failures with women." Those are the kinds of women that can't get a good quality man and they are angry about it. Most of the time they are past 30 women.
Simping is chasing women who don't care about you
Treating a woman is doing things for a woman who does care
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I think a simp would be a guy with low self esteem who fawns over a woman and is willing to be taken advantage of, walked on, and degraded. He'll buy her expensive things or whatever she asks for in an effort to gain her company. His desperation makes him rather loathsome.
It's extreme, compared to simply being a gentleman and treating her like a lady.
A true lady wouldn't take advantage of a man just to capitalize.
A gentleman earns a woman's admiration and respect by being masculine, having honor and dignity and, at the same time, treating her with dignity and respect. He earns her trust by making her feel safe and secure. And he makes her feel feminine by being masculine but not in a strutting, pompous, arrogant, self conscious, aggressive, or domineering manner. He is genuine, honest, open, funny and fun to be with, and treats her like she is special. But he doesn't grovel or try to buy her.
He is honored to be with a quality woman and shows it by treating her with respect, including opening doors to buildings and letting her enter or exit first, paying for meals or outings, and behaving like a responsible provider.
He'll know that she's a quality lady if she offers to pay for some subsequent dates and is genuinely appreciative of his attention. She is honored to be with him.
She demonstrates her quality and dignity not being frivolous or taking advantage. She's a responsible person, not a gold digger. She is independent and doesn't need free stuff. She chooses to be with him because she is attracted to his qualities, just as he is attracted to hers.
I'll differ this one to urban dictionary, "When you infatuate over women, allowing them to take over your mind and cause you to do things for them that you wouldn't normally do."
The difference between a "simp" and treating a lady is that the word "simp" is usually used by bitter misogynists.
example: a man treating ladies with respect is called a "simp" by those, who do not.
example: a man courting/complimenting/helping out a girl - sometimes with the intention of finding a sweet girlfriend - is called a "simp" by those, who do not or they insult women or are being in general a dick.
There's a difference between simp and a gentleman. A simp puts the girl before himself and his personal needs without respect for himself, whereas the gentleman is still polite but doesn’t need to act like a fool to get women’s attention, he knows his boundaries and self worth.
An extreme example, a simp would be a man that spends ten thousand dollars on only fans as a tip while a gentleman proposes to his girlfriend with a ten thousand dollar ring.
A simp would treat any lady regardless of whether she'd earned such behavior just because she was female. With a non simp, treating a lady would be done because she had shown herself to be worthy of such treatment in the eyes of the man depending on his personal values / requirements.
Simp is a term unsuccessful men use for men capable of attracting a partner.
I would say that it does just get thrown around. A lot of the time these days just for fun.
I'd say the difference is in why the guy is treating the 'lady', because if it's undeserved or she made him or if he keeps doing it when she's not interested in him that way (i. e. he's friendzoned), then you could call him a simp. The relationship is a joke.
A simp is a guy fawning over a girl that doesn't even know he's alive, doesn't respect him or a guy who generally acts like a male feminist basically taking a woman's side no matter how wrong she is, idolizing women if you will.
Being a gentleman is just being respectful and thinking about the feelings of a woman that returns that same level of respect and reciprocates by acting like a lady.
Simp is giving with nothing in return or even she is disrespectful or nasty to you.
For example as in the pic. Getting the girl a cab after a date where A she is a virgin or B after y'all had sex... not simping.
Getting the girl a cab after a date and she takes the cab to another man's house and has sex with him. That's simping.
Simping is doing things for women that brings shame on yourself.
Doing things to please her that will embarrass you, hurt you, or otherwise make you look like a fool.
Getting a cab for her does none of those things
The difference is in the woman. Some women are deserving of affection and some are not. If they're not, you're simping. It's not that hard to understand. Some inexperienced guys might be simps and not realize it. But they're young give them time.
u Usually, the difference lies in the identity of the person doing the name calling! "Simp" is the battle cry of butt-hurt losers who can't get or can't keep a girlfriend.
Idgaf what people say - as long as you are treating everyone with respect and dignity, you are good in my book.
Too far is a subjective measurement... If you can't appreciate kindness, you deserve none at all.
A simp is a guy who does more and more for a woman who clearly has no regard or feelings for him in the hope that she will change her mind - and she does not, and that does not stop him.
Before 2018, what is now referred to as "simping" was just called being a nice person and it wasn't somehow bad.
No difference. Men are just conditioned to be subservient to women. This has to stop.
Simple. One is being respectful and the other is letting a nigga hit it while watching and probably jerking off.
That word is thrown around so much it’s just dumb 😂
Simp is basically putting someone in pedestal , the person can be anybody not just women.
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