I come across this word a lot and it just needs attention. Please keep your responses mature and no name calling or bashing. You will be reported! If you got nothing nice to say, please skip this question.
Only respectful answers please.
Thanks!
I really don't know what a simp is but for the most part, I try to be a gentleman to all ladies unless they show me they deserve otherwise...
No, I like guys who are respectful though
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A gentleman knows where to draw the line, knows when and when not to give certain women attention, knows what kind of attention to give or not give, and isn't a total cad that treats women like sh*t for no reason.
A sucker idolizing mediocre p**y is someone so desperate for attention, he'll blow $800 to get some random e-thot to pop out her boobies so he can drool for her. Who just wants to score already, and doesn't care what he has to stoop to in order to get some.
The key difference is with self-respect. If a gentleman begins to suspect a girl is taking advantage of him, he'll call her out on it. If she's not even sorry, he cuts off all contact with her.
If a simp gets abused like this, he'll keep trying to win back some favor from her, no matter how far he has to go or how pathetic his attempt has to be. He'll be the perfect doormat, to chase even the slightest hope of getting off.
A gentleman may have a hard time saying not to a damsel in distress. But a simp is only categorically significantly different from a john in that johns take less disrespect.
Johns also are willing to take their chances with streetwalkers, out in places where there is a very high risk of getting caught by the police. Simps are such weasel cowards, they would rather have all their prostitution-related activities happen over an internet connection, than risk any encounter with police.
The problem becomes when cynics and doomers, when douchebags and wannabe Chads become so desperate to lash out at the impending Simpocalypse that exploitative sites like OnlyFans have produced, since these bulls can't tolerate losing *any* of their cows to an inferior bull, that they start misusing the term to attack *any* man they perceive as inferior, for showing *any* kindness toward a woman whatsoever!
Not only does this not yield anything productive, but it comes at the expense of these anti-simps wasting all their time chasing windmills, and ignoring real cases of simping that require real action.
As such, the real cancer of the Simpocalypse continues to metastasize; while the self-proclaimed anti-simps waste their time destroying healthy relationship dynamics that are actually needed to fight back against the growth of simp-dom. Meanwhile, the site that was founded by a defender of men who molest dogs continues to grow its shady business model!
It'd be like the DEA hunting down and assassinating someone for growing aloe vera and making homemade medicine with it, thinking that will put a dent in some wholly unrelated meth king's ever-expanding dark empire! Then locking up a boy for growing hemp to make ropes with, while totally ignoring fentanyl bills being dropped in random locations by domestic terrorists.
It comes down to self worth and assertiveness.
A gentleman will look you in the eyes and say "I think you're very charming are you free for a date with me?"
A simp will beat around the bush
"Oh how beautiful you are! None of these guys you've been dating deserves you. You need a man who appreciates you, I'm sure you'll meet him one day"
Both gave compliment but one stated HIS own interst and the other was too afraid of rejection that he showerd her with compliments and sat there waiting for appreciation that never came.
A simp is an individual who uses emotional manipulation, devoid of conscience at some levels, to ascertain a physical (object) Reward. Single Mom-Son and coddled Momma Boy, where manipulation is large part of survival and/or dynamic, is often uncovered in the Simp history.
—Feminism and attack upon male hood through Public educational systems is the most influencing Factor.
There is a paramount difference, between Ephesians 5 and Man/Woman prescribed Relational roles-behaviors, as compared too Self-absorbed Simping.
"Simp" is simply a matter of an opinion. It's a derogatory term like "hoe" for women to allege you have no balls if you're a Simp or that you're just telling a woman what she wants to hear to gain favor. I do what I feel and I could give less than a damn what someone does or does not label me. Because thier labels are determined by thier belief structure which clearly is NOT mine. This Is why I'm amused by the women on here that are incensed by "slut shaming". I could care less if a woman has slept with a 1000 guys. That's her choice! Would I ever date her? No! And that is MY choice. I'll never understand why it's so important to some people that you have to approve of what they do.
What i understand of a simp is a guy throwing himself at a girl even if she is using him
Or unnecessarily tries to be a knight in shining armour when she can clearly handle the situation is simp
A simp could be said ls like a yes man.
A gentlemen on other hand knows when bow and when to growl.
But trust me if a guy really likes a girl to an extent he will simp for them 😂😂😂
For example husband's 😂😂😂.
Gal oh honey how am I looking today
Guy oh you look splendid like a fresh autumn breeze
(Internally thinking 🤔 i don't see any change just the normal , but i can't tell her that 😂 )
Gal : do i look fat in this dress
Guy : oh yes you do (oh no abort abort )
Simp mode on oh sugar you ain't looking fat at all you look amazing thin like a feather 😂😂😂
Simp is short for simpleton. As in these men are so simple-minded as to think that if they kiss women's asses enough that eventually they will be able to get sex. On a lower level it's also just used for any guy who is constantly chasing and hanging out with girls, like middle or highschool boys, even if they aren't necessarily ass kissing. But no I'm not attracted to simpletons of any sort.
Too me simps are guys who will do anything for a girl in hopes he will either like him back or sleep with him or both. Im none of those. If you are a bitch to me ill be a bitch back to you no problems idc how attractive you are :p
and its also just a term a bunch of the incels in here love to throw at me to silence me if i dare defend a girl on here from harassment or just merely agreeing with something they said. I just laugh at em because its pretty much admitting defeat on their part because they can't engage with any of my points. :)
I wonder that as well. Because I do things that I believe are nice and get called a simo by some people I don't get it as I have no ulterior motive. I'm just being nice or helping a friend.
Granted I don't have any "game" when it comes to talking to women. But tbh Im just genuine about things. I dislike the term "game" as it is. Cause well it seems that your just playing about.
I should also say that some I guess think this as overall I tend to interact more with women however this is due to feeling more comfortable around them.
Hope I've made sense.
I'm not either. I think the difference between a gentleman and a simp is really just whether or not the girl likes him back. Realistically they both go out of their way to help women, but simps are weird about it and are generally made fun of for having no social awareness.
Simps turn me off.
The difference is that simping is when you do pretty much anything the person you like wants you to and even things they didn't ask for. Simps treat you like a goddess when you did nothing in return. A desperate attempt to get you to like them.
A gentleman just does a kind gesture here and there, shows respect but stays true to himself and won't let you just walk over him like a simp would. And he does these kind things, because he is kind.
u I'm Nathan... that's it
other than that, everyone else is entitled and free to think as they wish, it doesn't really matter to me... lol
as for the specific question, gentleman or simp, or nice guy... none of those really have a true meaning to me, lol
if you really know me, then you really know how I am, and that's way more important than these "meme labels"
For me the difference is that a gentleman has a backbone, he´s friendly until things get to a redline. A simp has no backbone he thinks that if he gives her everything she´ll one day give him something back.
I would say I´m the first one because I´d at least call myself friendly, patient and polite but that has limits because I´m like this mostly to a narrowed down number of people. Like I´m not like this to all women at all times.
I would like to think I am a gentleman. There is a possible grey zone between the two from an external perspective. I might offer a drink to a female if I getting one myself but I won't do that if it isn't reciprocated. A simp would be giving a girl an unlimited bar tab.
A simp is a guy who defends a woman no matter how appalling her behavior is. I can't say I blame them because what our society finds appalling in women and in men are very different, remove the gender and it is clear.
A gentleman in my opinion, gives a woman respect when she earns it not just by virtue of being a woman and knows when to respectfully disagree with her or at the very least can say no to her.
So wait, giving a female attention and “doing the most” for a female is a bad thing? Lol if funny back in the day female were complaining that men didn’t pay a lot of attention to them or appreciate them in the way they want. Now you got these idiots (men) worshipping the ground some of these women walk on ( no idea why) and now it’s a bad look lol can’t win with these women. Some men are fools to keep trying.
I would differentiate between a gentleman and a simp that a simp would go so far as to bring harm to himself in an effort to support women or his woman. A gentleman has a certain mannerism that people find pleasant and it reflect well upon his character while a simp appears to have no set bounderies, would go out of his way to in any ways please the opposite sex even if it brings harm to him or puts him in a light of ridicule.
A simp and gentlemen is both the same to me and I ain't neither.
"When you gonna let me fuck" or "is you fucking me or not" or " we gonna fuck right?" is the best manners I have and will always have.
Am a gentle man, you do things in a humanitarian way not the other way round, most guys that do things for the favour of a woman, then are agressive when it come to male friends and they are dangerous and they do those things for the woman when they are not yet married to her, just IMIDIATLY after their marriage their character changes, as for me am a gentle man not a simp
A simp is not inherently a gentleman. I'm sure there's overlap, but for the most part I bet they're usually pretty cynical behind all the needy supplicating behavior. At the end of the day, that's all they will be seen as: Desperate.
Most extreme example I can think of: A gentleman is courteous, but will not strive to snag a low-quality woman. A SIMP will worship a meth-addicted hooker.
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