Is there a point in relationships or marriage if I dont want intimacy?

[Imjustagirl1520]

[OlderAndWiser]

If your lack of desire is a permanent aspect of your personality, then you may be able to find a satisfying relationship if you partner with a man who has a similar lack of desire. However, at your age, what you think you want - and what you think you don't want - is subject to change drastically as you get older. E. g., many girls your age will say that they never want to have children, but most of them will develop that desire as they get into their twenties.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yeah the basic manipulation technique, ”you’ll change your mind” as always.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you think I'm trying to manipulate you. . . think again. But you're giving me the basic teenager technique: doesn't matter what happens to everyone else, 'cause I'm different. I KNOW I'll never change [except you can't really know that and you probably aren't much different from everybody else.]

[Imjustagirl1520]

It doesn't matter. Its rude.

[OlderAndWiser]

Disagreeing with you constitutes "rude?"

[Imjustagirl1520]

No, simply the ”you’ll change your mind” saying is just rude. Thats like saying to a newly wed couple that they’ll change their mind and divorce, not so nice huh?

[OlderAndWiser]

No, that's not the same thing at all. Seems that you are just looking for a reason to be mad at the world.

[Imjustagirl1520]

It is tho. Because i think its disrespectful to tell someone that they’ll change their mind? You know nothing about my life, so u never have the right to tell me what i think or will think in the future.

[OlderAndWiser]

You have more feelings than a ruptured appendix! You are far too sensitive for tis world.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Seriously how.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are one of those kids who insists on having the last word?

[Imjustagirl1520]

No im asking how

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm tired of having fun with the troll.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Troll because you dont understand the question, basic male.

[OlderAndWiser]

Condescending troll.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Just say you didn't understand the question.

[OlderAndWiser]

Just say you want to have the last word.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Sure if thats what u need ig🤷‍♀️

[OlderAndWiser]

SO predictable.

[Imjustagirl1520]

So are you men by the way

[OlderAndWiser]

I knew it!

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yeah me too

[OlderAndWiser]

Of course!

[MrChinaski]

Define 'intimacy'? If what you mean is sex, then sure it is possible if you are honest and find someone happy to abstain too. If what you mean is to withhold emotional intimacy, then, no, what you have described is merely a lifelong cost-sharing arrangement, not a marriage... permanent room-mates <shivers>.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Are there really any men out there who dont want sex?

[MrChinaski]

Yes. But not a large proportion in my experience.

[Imjustagirl1520]

So its a 0, got it…

[Anastasia4real]

Before marriage it's your will but you try to clear the reasons and don't mind also clear that after marriage you try to understand him and may be in few time you ready for intimate

[Imjustagirl1520]

I mean i dont want intimacy at all.

[Anastasia4real]

Ohhh i understand sister please message me may be talk in detail I think it's a sensitive personal matter

[Nikki1989]

People build successful, fulfilling lives together for dozens of reasons that have nothing to do with sex.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Not with men at least

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love, dating, and all the messy stuff in between 💋

Yes, there is absolutely a point. Relationships and marriage are not only about sex or physical intimacy. Emotional connection, partnership, stability, shared goals, inside jokes, building a life together – all of that can exist without strong sexual desire.

You just need someone whose needs match yours. For many people, emotional intimacy > physical intimacy. That’s not a red flag, that’s just your wiring.

[ohsheeT]

No not really.. in a relationship or marriage , it is two people becoming one

And\nThat takes into love, bond and seeing things\nTwo different ways. by respecting and by loyalty. The bottom line is, if there is no intimacy, there is no bond. There is no connection, true connection. So there should be no reason to get into any type of relationship even friendship has connection. A type of intimacy.\nWhen you are in a relationship , a lover relationship that intimacy becomes even deeper
If you do not have that connection , then you should not be together

[Imjustagirl1520]

So you need to have sex?

[ohsheeT]

For me , being intimate and having sex are two different things

And yes I like them both

But you can be very intimate and not out of sex.

And of course , when you have sex , you're gonna be very intimate , because you want to make it about her , you want to please her , and you want to take her to that place

And yes , I love sex , but I can also be very intimate , I mean very intelligent without having sex

[Imjustagirl1520]

okay

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely. As a longtime celibate pay pig who is really, truly only concerned with what pleases my owner (s), I've been fortunate enough to have served numerous women and couples who are sufficiently comfortable to grant a lifelong incel the privilege of serving them in as many beneficial ways as possible and practical. Moreover, I never complain, just because she has no interest in physical intimacy with me, but simultaneously engages in such coveted delights with another male, and if she chooses to employ the proverbial double standard of privileges for him, but never for me, I'm honestly quite pleased to participate in such a carefully crafted arrangement.

[VioletHaze]

Relationships are so much more than sex. It's sharing life with a person you love and care about. You might have a harder time finding a man disinterested like you, but it is not impossible.

Are you averse to physical touch as a whole, or just asexual?

[Imjustagirl1520]

That guy i find will either be a total loser or just weird in general. Ill jush give up already.

I dont like it but i can deal with it if i have to.

[Berethor]

I'm a man; I can't help it trope, no point, a man would never agree to a relationship without intimacy. All women are prudes trope, maybe you should be in relationship with fellow girl.

[Imjustagirl1520]

So its true men only want sex?

[Berethor]

Yes it's true girl, what else a woman have to offer to a man other than sex?

allthetropes.org/wiki/A_Man_Is_Always_Eager

[Imjustagirl1520]

Says a lot.

[Imjustagirl1520]

says even more. this is why i dont date.

[Berethor]

Right decision, are you able to launch psychic fireballs from your hands already? :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Virgin_Power

[Imjustagirl1520]

whatv

[Berethor]

Just a joke based on the virgin power trope, not having sex don't gives you any powers.

[Berethor]

The virgin I am chating with on GAG right now is 26 old, I want her because she not dirty.

[Berethor]

How you know what my body count is? I don't remember telling you about that.

[Imjustagirl1520]

i assumed, or is it more?

[Berethor]

Why you assume? anyway a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, so whatever. :)

[Imjustagirl1520]

No men r like toothbrushes and women r mouths, nobody wants a toothbrush that has been in everyones mouth, do they?

[Berethor]

Look if you want a virgin guy I have no problem with it, I had already told you that.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Imjustagirl1520]

Personally i dont give a shit because im mature.

[Berethor]

You are not mature, you just a girl, and girls don't care about it as much as guys.

[Imjustagirl1520]

How am i not mature? and so what? if a guy cares about virginity he’s already a loser to me.

[Berethor]

You not mature by age, you wanting a relationship without intimacy is also immature.

[Imjustagirl1520]

So? How is that immature? as i said, only men care ab sex, as always.

[Berethor]

It's acting like a child, that's why it's immature, men tend to be more mature in general.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Hysterical_Woman

[Imjustagirl1520]

how is not wanting sex immature? and no they do not.

[Berethor]

Because wanting sex is what grown up people want, same with wanting babies.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/I_Want_Grandkids

[Imjustagirl1520]

You do realise not everyone wants exactly what you want, right?

[Berethor]

I realise that you are immature, but you might still grown up out of it, we will see.

[Imjustagirl1520]

ah yes cuz sex is all life is about.

[LiamS95]

That is just so creepy, why would you want to know.

[Imjustagirl1520]

what?

[queenofcardio]

No, there's no point

[Imjustagirl1520]

why?

[dudeinohio]

Not really

[Imjustagirl1520]

why?

[dudeinohio]

Intimacy is critical in a relationship.

[Imjustagirl1520]

For men.

[dudeinohio]

Well, most women want it, too, I have found out.

[Imjustagirl1520]

It just hurts for women

[Imjustagirl1520]

Heard they bleed too

[dudeinohio]

In my experience, it feels good for women, too.

[Imjustagirl1520]

fym in ur experience? r u a woman?

[dudeinohio]

Nope. My experiences with women.

[Imjustagirl1520]

You dont know how they feel.

[dudeinohio]

They tell me.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yeah cuz they’re totally telling the truth🥱😐

[Xalooo]

Yes.

[Imjustagirl1520]

why?

[Xalooo]

You experience happiness with your spouse, they become your life partner.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Men dont want anything but sex

[Xalooo]

Not all men are the same.

[Imjustagirl1520]

yeah right.