1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I've been in two of them and even tho they didn't work out..
They did because of everything I learned from them the first one was kinda hard because I work for myself and that was a busy year and she wanted me to be in more contact with her I mean I understood where she was coming from
And that was the year I moved my mom in with me and I new there was going to come a time I wouldn't be able to work so anything I got I took it and I got a lot that year and to be honest with you I'm glad that I did because even at the end I thought I was still going to lose everything and by the grace of God I saved it all
The next one was really good I think probably in our past lives we had maybe been together I don't know but we could finish each other's sentences as I would be texting something to her about something she would send me that same text it's as if I was hurt and she was me is actually a very beautiful thing but I knew in the long run there was an age difference
And she lived completely on the other side of the planet and this is when I could not leave my house so I could not go see her and she wanted to experience things and I understood that and I felt like I was going to hold her back. We talked about it and in time we broke up but even that took 7 months and we were still in contact every day and I knew it was just a matter of time she would meet somebody and then that would be the day that we would actually break up but even then it took a little bit longer
But when you are in a long distance relationship there's things about yourself and about other people that you can learn that will help you just grow in so many different directions
And it has to do with energy it has to do with frequency it has to do with touch it has to do with love it has to do with Bond it does not matter how many miles away you are from a person you can touch them they can touch you you can feel them as if they are standing right in front of you and vice versa
I mean I already knew that because I have been doing it forever but there's a depth that is just unbelievable and the knowledge that comes from it is priceless
There's so many other factors and benefits that you can get from having a LDR I say everybody should have to go through one to experience life and the relationship in a different way so when you have that physical relationship in time it teaches you about the energy relationship the spiritual relationship and both of those have to work together to make anything work but until you feel our understand that touch or that Bond through an LDR even a real physical relationship you're going to be missing things but in time you can gain them everybody should experience it30 Reply
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1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I met a girl on here in 2019. We were long-distance friends at first, and then a few years later, after being long-distance best friends for two years, we started dating. That was in 2023 and almost our whole dating relationship was long-distance. We got married this past summer, and I am extremely happy.
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411 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Used to be with a guy that used to be on here. We dated 3 and half years. Unfortunately it didn't work out between us due to long distance. There are times where I miss him and what we had but I'm still going. We talk every now and then sometimes.
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2 moYes sort of long distance if you count 2 hours away long distance, then I have. As you already know it didn't work out but it wasn't because of the long distance.
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Yeah I don't think I will do that again. It's just too much. If I ever find someone again it will be in my own city.
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4.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Long distance relationships can work out if you both are on the same page with things , If not, it won’t last
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Anonymous(18-24)2 moIt sounds extremely strange but if you logically think about it, it must be more successful than any dating app because the distance supresses lust and you have more time and a broader angle to get to know a person. ㅤ
00 Reply7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I did this a long time ago. I met a girl freshman year in college. It really was my first serious relationship. After freshman year I lost my scholarship. I had enough money saved to pay for one more semester and I had hoped to find funding somewhere else. That never happened so I had to leave and go back to where I lived. We saw each other frequently because it a only a 5 hour ride. After second year she lost her scholarship as well and moved 1500 miles across the country,
I enrolled in a crappy commuter school and she enrolled at the local state college 1500 miles away.
That first summer I spent a month in the hospital and after I recovered I drove 27 hours straight to visit her. After that we got to visit once or twice a year and because phone calls were expensive we did not tslk very often either,
It was 3 miserable years and finally I called her late one night after 11 oclock when the rates go down and broke up with her.10 Reply314 opinions shared on Relationships topic. How about that?
I have.
Just recently, as a matter of fact.
I don't yet know how it's going to work out.
Time will tell. 😊
Cheers!22 ReplyNot with a G@Ger but I have been before and no they do not work.. None of the things that make a relationship work are present long distance... How can you be with someone when you are not with them. You can't. 80-90% of knowing someone comes from body language, feelings when you are near and touch. If you don't have that you 15% of a relationship and 85% fantasy.. That isn't a relationship that is a novel.
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2 moI'm 10,000 to 20,000km from most users. I don't think something can be considered a 'relationship' if there is no plausible path to being with each other. But there are a couple of people I have been close to for a while. They are lovely people, with their quirks... we all are.
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@Unycorn The Antarctic penguins are closer. 😊
Anonymous(25-29)2 moWe met some years ago on this platform, through casual yet striking interactions on posts. There was a notable sense of familiarity despite being strangers - which I found eerily compelling. Coincidental posting gradually moved to private chat. Months later, I mysteriously found myself in a relationship. He said he wants to be with me forever, We will see how long forever lasts.
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2 moyeah. It was a 48 year old guy and I was 13. We were talking till I turned 14 and I actually told about him to other adult on here and that adult (she is not active on here anymore) told me that it was not okay. We were obviously not in a relationship or something but we texted a lot. It was scary.
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2 moI have plenty of friends on here with whom I have long distance friendships and so far they are all going strong.
10 Reply 817 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes I met a 29 year old virgin on here when I was 54. She lived 8 hours away in a neighboring state. We had a very serious 4 year relationship. Our differences in religion and her immaturity became problems. We still communicate from time to time
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2 moWe didn't meet here, but we're both on here.
At first due to work we couldn't meet often, but we talked daily to each other so that helped a ton.10 Reply - 729 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
2 moI did it once a long time ago on my first account. It didn't workout.
I haven't dated long distance since then and I probably won't ever.
I did meet a couple of people from here over the years.
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Not long distance relationship, but I met a guy here and we’ve been friends. Can’t really say about long distance relationship though.10 Reply My last one did it was around a 2 hour drive.
A prior one that was a 4 hour drive lasted for a bit it was mainly intimate level.
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2 moMy first serious relationship back in the year 2001 was an LDR for 3+ years and it didn't work out 😕
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We met on a vintage app called MIRC than we switched on MSN messenger when it became available...
2 moNever have met anyone from G@G. But I wouldn't divulge my name to just anyone either. I'm pretty sure G@G had a dating App. That may be the way to go.
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2 moWho would seriously have a LDR with some GaG person? I joke about it with some of the cool chicks here, but the idea is so retarded I expect everyone laughs at it because it's just so stupid.
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2 moI wish I could let people get close to me.. I need therapy lol
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I have this kitchen manager who understands me without even explaining myself.. he knew something was wrong when every time he took a step forward I took a step back.. now our convos are longer and deeper and I don’t take a step back.. we hand locked eachother tonight when we said goodbye.. so I think I have trust issues..
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I think I’m falling in love with him
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Long distance sucks though.. my sister broke up with her fiancé of 8 years because both have their own lives.. and she felt lonely.. he has his mansion and she’s constantly moving around being in the military.. I don’t think she thought this through when she joined.. I hurt for him so bad. She brought her boyfriend to our Christmas party two months after the breakup..
She has issues.. yet she’s so judgement on friends and family and their relationships. - 2 mo
Sounds to me your problem isn't not letting people in at all. It is more about not letting yourself outside the walls. The thoughts in your head, your worst case scenario, are always worse than reality. People never give themselves enough credit. The human body can withstand emense brutal unthinkable punishment and the mind is literally capable of adapting and moulding to any scenario. I think the answer to your problem is simple to say but maybe not so easy to do. But you kinda have to microdose putting yourself out there in those situations that make you take a step backward and when you take that step be cognisent of it and force yourself to take that step back and move one step forward. or half a step forward. or even just think I would like to take a step forward. Whatever the smallest thing, progression, you can actually accomplish is. Small obtainable goals. Which appears to be what you are doing with Mr. Manager and that is fantastic. Just don't stop there, see if you can branch out, ride the wave you're on. You can stand toe to toe with him so you are cabable of it so therefore it is possible to do it with another and another until meeting where you are becomes the new normal. My only caution would be is to wary of falling head over heals until you are sure you love him and it is not that you just love the you that you get to be with him. Don't mistake your growth and progress as belonging to him I guess is more what I am trying to say.
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Nope, never been in a long distance relationship.
00 ReplyFunny woman. I remember gossip here about two of the admins that were dating, but I don't recall their names from like 2017..
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Anonymous(36-45)2 moI never had any kind of relationship, let along long distance.
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2 moI had 1-3 never worked out 😂
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Anonymous(25-29)2 moMaybe. Maybe not. It's complicated.
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2 moEm no and not gonna happen.
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. never tried it
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