Girls, how do you actually want a guy who likes you to approach you?

[TheStraightCutPerson]

Approaching the opposite gender is hard for many. Who don't know where things might go wrong. So, girls, how do you expect someone who likes you to approach you? You tell us yourselves. So, that we can be better persons for you.

[TrueConfection]

I noticed _________ (i. e., you have a beautiful smile). I’d like to take you to _______ (lunch). Would you be interested?

Something along those lines in your own words. Don’t sound like you’re reading a script your buddies gave you on a bet.

[TheStraightCutPerson]

Wait are you talking from experience there. How many guys played with your heart that way due to a bet I wonder 🤣

[TrueConfection]

In my 20s, it was not uncommon for guys to come up all snickering and nervous to ask me or one of my friends out. They sound like they are reading a script.

However, I am married and still get approached (by mature men not giggling). The example I gave is how I always preferred to be approached and my preference hasn’t changed. It’s an opportunity for the woman to say yes or no thank you.

[Nikki1989]

With good manners, charisma, confidence and some humour go a long way too.

[TheStraightCutPerson]

Uh, so you want everyone to be your prince in a horse huh.

[Anonymous]

With respect. That’s all. Doesn’t matter when/how as long as it’s with respect and he accepts and respects if she isn’t interested.

[TheStraightCutPerson]

Gimme details. How do you expect the person that likes you to approach you!!!

[Opinion Owner]

I DON’T HAVE EXPECTATIONS OF HOW!!!