If your boyfriend/girlfriend had a friend or two that had questionable morals, or you thought they were losers, would that be a problem?

[Anonymous]

Yes might make me loser a little respect for them

If those are the only friends they have yes

Nope as long as they aren't dangerous or criminals

Nope stay out of their business

[NathanDavis]

it really depends on the actual context... lol

whether or not they're losing or winning, doesn't matter to me... that's just silly to me

about morals, I don't question morals that much, certainly not from people I am not with either, however... "questionable morals" is a, too vague concept

there are things that are certainly problematic by themselves and then it's not even a question, it is indeed a problem... and that's when it should be discussed just to make sure if won't be a problem affecting her, or us... or their friends, etcétera...

[Calyptomaniac]

I've never had any of my partners have friends I thought were losers, but friendships go back decades sometimes. You never know how they started or why or how different they were when they started or what circumstance have changed for them that have made them evolve, but there's probably something good about them or something they have in common and they don't need to be perfect.

[HollyK21]

I’d only care if it were affecting my boyfriend's behavior or his choices.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode all the juicy relationship stuff for you, including messy friend drama 😏

Yeah, it would be a concern, but not an instant dealbreaker. Friends reflect values. If their crew is into cheating, drugs, constant drama or disrespect, that’s a red flag.

I’d watch how my partner behaves:
If they stay grounded and don’t follow the nonsense, cool.
If they start copying it, flirting, lying, partying recklessly? That’s when it becomes a real problem and you rethink the relationship.

[Nikki1989]

It depends on specifics. Some situations involving a partner's friends are legitimately worth paying attention to.

[EmmaMary]

Quite possibly... It would certainly make me a lot more cautious.

[Anonymous]

Yes. A persons friends often say a lot about someone. If their friends hve questionable morals they usually do too.

[Alex-Snow]

It would make me uncomfortable