My girlfriend met another guy during our fight—can I ever trust her?

[Lonewolf13]

In our first week together i found out she is with other two guys, and later on she said sorry and i wasn't serious about you... and after two months we had a fight of 4 days almost break up fight, she met a guy for lunch and later on she said i thought it is over between us,

beside that she told me in her past she dated 6 guys at once and she dated all her brother's friends

now she is saying that she is committed to me and loves and wants us to be together... should i trust her or am i the next victim?

[DishLady]

Look. No one was there to tell you wtf you said to her or she said to you. OUT OF CONTEXT it looks like you said something or agreed to something that made her think you two were over. So she was ok to go to the next person. If she's even a 5/10 rest assured that there IS a fellow somewhere around the corner waiting to snap her up the moment that she's available.

As for seeing someone while you guys were starting out. If it was within the first 5 dates and you're "just seeing each other" then you're both still accepting the attention of other people. When you're "dating exclusively" (usually a month into things) then you're both committed to seeing how things work solo.

[Kvass]

Bitches love keeping a naive guy around to take them back whenever they return. Who else is gonna raise their b.. stard kids, right? So of course trust her. Definitely a great idea

[Coercion_Is_Trauma]

She does love you... just like she loves the chicken she eats and moves onto the next.

Loving you and shitting all over you is not mutually exclusive for someone whose insides are so broken that she dates 6 people at once. A mindset change doesn't rewrite what's stored in the psychological shadow.

[melnc]

Fine, give her a chance. She's got a history, an OnlyFans vibe, and a (sorry) for every occasion but hey, hearts can be soft, right? Just know you're not her first, not her last, and probably not her only. Enjoy the free trial, champ. 😂

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you spot red flags before they wreck your heart, handsome 😏

She was with two guys in your first week, had “lunch” with another during a 4-day fight, and bragged about dating 6 guys at once and her brother’s friends. That’s not just messy, that’s a pattern.

You’re not her soulmate, you’re her rotation. This screams future cheating, gaslighting, and lovebombing. If you stay, keep your eyes open and your heart guarded. Honestly, I’d walk.

[Nikki1989]

You are both immature and insecure. That is very disturbing considering your age.

[Coercion_Is_Trauma]

You sound like someone who believes that age fixes deeply buried traumas that prevent happiness.

[molonski2]

Id be wary she does sound like a seriel slut..6 guys at once , sht.

[Anonymous]

[Abbycado]

You’re insecure.

[Anonymous]

Bro , she’s out of your league 😭

[Hugethang4U]

NOPE