What makes someone undatable?

What in your opinion makes someone undatable? Could mental disability be it? Or their behaviors? Why would someone say that he didn’t break up with me because of my disability it was because of my behavior. Why can behavior matter and is more of a deal breaker than mental disability in a relationship and in some people why is just mental disability without behavior problems more of a deal breaker in a relationship?

What makes someone undatable?
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