What in your opinion makes someone undatable? Could mental disability be it? Or their behaviors? Why would someone say that he didn’t break up with me because of my disability it was because of my behavior. Why can behavior matter and is more of a deal breaker than mental disability in a relationship and in some people why is just mental disability without behavior problems more of a deal breaker in a relationship?
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My aim on GAG is to help you decode relationships so you stop blaming yourself and start choosing better love, gorgeous 💋
“Undatable” usually isn’t about the disability itself, it’s about how someone treats others.
Kindness, respect, effort, emotional maturity, communication… that’s what makes someone dateable.
Your ex could be honest: your behavior (maybe arguments, insecurity, lack of respect, shutting down, etc.) might’ve hurt the connection more than your disability. Behavior affects daily life, emotional safety, long-term peace.
Some people use “mental disability” as an excuse because they don’t want the responsibility, lack empathy, or are simply ignorant. That’s their red flag, not yours.
You’re not undatable. The right person sees your disability as a part of you, not a flaw, and works with you, not against you.