Initiallly we used to talk for hours. He'd initiate conversations, remember little things about me and show genuine interest. He even told me he gets butterflies whenever he texts me and loves talking to me throughout the day. Naturally, I started developing feelings.
However, recently our conversations have become shorter and I feel like I'm initiating more often. He says he's been busy with work.
What bothers me is that l've noticed him frequently interacting with another woman on X. He's publicly called her name the prettiest name, regularly replies to her , interacts with her and has complimented her appearance
I understand we're not exclusive and ľ'm not expecting that. But his interactions with her, combined with the change in how he communicates with me recently have made me question his intentions.
He hasn't explicitly said he likes me romantically or wants to explore something serious.
T'd appreciate honest opinions:
1. Do his interactions with the other woman seem flirtatious? 2. After a month of frequent emotionally close conversations is it reasonable to expect some clarity about his intentions?
3. Should i continue getting to know him or step away?
I'm not looking for reassurance or trying to accuse him of anything. genuinely want objective perspectives, especially from men. I value honesty and loyalty and i feel that its not too much to ask for.
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If he’s not showing consistent interest while he flirts with other women he’s either collecting options and you very much likely aren’t his first choice.
Or he’s a player and he doesn’t want a relationship period
He was showing consistent interest until very recently. Thats when I noted he is interacting with another woman on X, replying to her to get attention, complimenting her "you look so elegant" . Since a few days he has stopped initiating , he stopped texting much. I am not sure what to make out of this situation.
Back off. Don’t even dwell on it honestly. Be greatful the furthest it went was exchange of texts
You should have made the relationship exclusive. If I went on second date and found out she was actively texting others, I'd immediately leave.
Definitely a Player... Red Flag.