What does it mean when boyfriend says leave me alone and doesn't contact you the whole day

[lovelorn]

Me and my boyfriend had a silly argument its kinda my fault he'd had a busy busy day at work finally got home to rest, we were texting each other and we had a little row, he told me didn't have energy to speak to just text him I called him anyway he was like "I'm so tired I have no energy to speak I can't talk I need to rest I'm going to bed goodnight bye" and hung up on me. I was like omg we never hang up on each other. I text him saying I can't believe you did that, he was like I told you I have no energy to talk. I was like OK but yiu, hung up on me, he was like I need to rest leave me alone, I was like leave you alone? Again something we've never said to each other. He replied saying yeaaaahhhhhh, I said OK. All of yesterday he hasn't contacted me since, I don't know what to do! Please help! We meet once a week I don't wanna miss the opportunity to get to see him this week

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Ok so day three of no contact, should I message him? If yes what should I say?

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Thought you guys may want an update, so he finally messages me asking how I am, only to say if you can cope without me for this long then you can cope without me. He's upset with me as to why I didn't message him, he said he wanted to rest to only leave him alone for that time not forever. Way to go guys

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I wouldn't lie, but yeah he was upset as to why I didn't message him and I was like you said leave me alone for not not forever. I asked to see him and we've sorted it out thankfully. Guys thanks for your advice

[Izuniaa]

My boyfriend after letting him know about certain things like ruling out my pregnancy he and I panicked he didn’t sleep that and I checked the next day I was not we were both happy. So there other problems after going on and I had to go to the doctor so I made an appt. so this week it was normal Tuesday he Snapchated me in the morning usual but I said goodmorning And he snapchated me no words and I said something like no goodmorning lol and he got offended and started saying I don’t have time for this bullshit and if u wanna argue we can but u don’t want too. I said someone is having a bad day, he says please leave me alone for awhile I need to figure stuff out. I was like okay. And he didn’t message me that whole day I messaged him at end of the day saying I’m here if u need anything goodnight and he said goodnight and the next day. He snapchated so I was being neutral and not saying anything. He messaged me later than day and he says whatsup and I say nm pulling up home and he sends a Snapchat of what he is doing and I think that’s all. Then Thursday morning he messaged me let me know what happens after the doctors appt so he knows I’m not prego. I let him know okay and then after I text him I got out and he calls and he asks how did go and I tell him and I just ask him after how r u he says ehh and then I ask if it’s something to do with us I don’t wanna push and he says I don't know I will figure it out and then that’s it he says I gotta go and that was all. Friday I’m going about my day and i post a Snapchat on my story of me in the car and he comments where r u going and I say something like a doctors specialist and he calls and he says so where r u going and I’m like I’m going to my buddies house his mom teaches different medicine and I wanna learn about it and he is like okay okay. Then we need it. Then a little later during the afternoon I’m almost home he calls me I’m like interesting he says so what did u learn and I’m like oh this and this and tell him we actually have a conversation and he relates says oh yeah I have been eating at all I lost 6 lbs in one week i know and he says he knows it’s bad and just keep going what I learned and he seems intergued, Then he goes tellling me he might go fishing sometime soon with the guys and then he might go later on to a street car thing but he said it’s a maybe. And then I said well I gotta go and he says okay text me and said he will let me know what he is up too. And I Snapchated him random waiting for chipotle. So we Snapchated twice and then he left me unread and then around at night I txted hey and he said whatsup and I said nm chillin hbu and said same and I just left it. He didn’t respond and then Saturday I called him in the morning wanted to ask him about something and then later 2 hours later I messaged him again and I asked about my fishing pole would I be able to come grab it and he tellls me he is not home he is going to his moms with Alex and later he will be home and then he said it is too cold for fishing and waters r too high and his truck is not with him and then I asked any plans and he said only my mom and home and I can come over today later or tomorrow morning and I said today would be better. And he said okay and I didn’t say anything. And then later I just sent a random Snapchat and then he snapchated me of a highway and then we went back and forth having a convo and never brought up us hanging out so I want to know what is he trying to do and I’m keeping calm obviously but I just wanna know

[Snakeanddragon]

My boy friend and me have a argument last night , he very annoy and said" go away and leave alone. I will go away 4 days tomorrow , so you have thinking about your action like a child , do not call me or text for me , untill i call yoy when i get back " is he still love me? He will call me? 4 days to like 4 years... what can i do?

[Anonymous]

What do you mean, what does he mean?

Did he suddenly start speaking Sanskrit?

He said Leave me alone. That means leave him alone.

He said He was too tired to talk. That means, he was too tired to talk.

Girls, you need to listen to what's actually being said. Then maybe you wouldn't be so confused.

[lovelorn]

Men shouldn't act all rude when they are supposedly in love with you. What men don't get is that all you have to do is say it nicely women usually listen its when you get all stubborn about things is when women start to get pissed off

[Opinion Owner]

Way to miss the point, love.

[Honest-Matt]

He needs his space, relationships can go without contact for a week so don't worry. He was tired, really tired apparently. Hanging up on you wasn't meant to be mean, he just really had no energy to stay on the phone. It was kind of inconsiderate to pursue him after as he was trying to sleep.

[lovelorn]

I suppose you do have a point, I do feel bad. I hate when we argue over trivial things that then become big, like now he's playing the ignoring game for the last two days we never do that. I prefer to talk things through not argue. You say he needs space, we meet once a week and hardly get time to talk all week as he's so busy. We sms frequently every day, I'm just wondering why he hasn't bothered to even message to say sorry for hanging up like that I was tired, is he waiting for me to contact

[Honest-Matt]

I don't think it's a good idea to go into this thing expecting an apology for hanging up on you. Sometimes it's best to bite your tongue and say sorry, even if it's not needed, it helps relieve the tension. If I was in this situation, I'd tell him, I'm sorry for pressuring you, can we talk?

[lovelorn]

So you reckon I should text him? What do you propose I say? It's little awkward after him telling me to leave him alone

[Honest-Matt]

Ask to see him

[ilookingforinestgirl]

When a guy tells you to leave him alone you have to leave him alone because then he's going to think that you are annoying or just don't understand or don't get it through your head you always need to give a guy some space when he tells you that

[ilookingforinestgirl]

Yes you should text him an ask him if he is still mad at you for what you did and and great job guys and great job again and you're very welcome anytime you can hit me up a right

[lv4lv]

It means he's tired. He's stressed. He's over worked. He just needs to be alone for a few days. Give him that. It doesn't mean anything besides that. You're waaaayyy over thinking it.

[Rashad]

it means that you talk to much and he wants you to stop talking lol

[lovelorn]

Lol nooo, its because we had an argument which was his fault but instead of solving it or even trying to fix it he's like goodnight. My point is if you cause problems at least make amends talk resolve it then.at least it won't drag on like it has now for the last two days. If your tired say "look right now isn't a good time I'm shattered we'll talk tomorrow" why get bitchy there's really no need

[Anonymous]

No you shouldn't message him.

He wants to be left alone for a while, remember?

[lovelorn]

He said he wanted to rest and to leave him alone for that I don't know arghhhh

[Opinion Owner]

Re:Update - I don't believe that for a second. That sounds more like you want an excuse to belittle the users.

Be honest, he didn't really say that, did he?