He said he wasn't ready for a relationship, now he's back..

[Anonymous]

There was a guy I was seeing about 6 months. Things got serious WAY to fast, we never had sex, but in other aspects, things moved pretty fast, even I was pretty scared off. After about 3 weeks he said he wasn't ready for a relationship, and didn't think he was over his ex, and did not want to hurt me. We stopped talking, and I never contacted him again. He's now popped up back in the picture, and apologized for what he did, and now he wants to take me out? So what do I do? I don't even know if that feeling that I had with him will still be there since its been a few months, so I don't know if its even worth meeting up. Suggestions?

[Anonymous]

I am a beliver in second chances but for them to work you both need to understand what the problems were and be willing to work on them. Also if you give it another go I suggesst taking things slower. Only date once a week, only call and message a couple of times a week max and don't have stay over or sleep with each other for a while.

You will not know about your feelings for him unless you give it another go but only do it if you are happy to and you both understand that the feelings/spark may have been lost.

[Ghibli]

It's worth it, he wasn't ready because that was the wrong time due to his ex, but now his ex is gone.