Should I be worried about my girlfriend vacationing in Miami with 2 of her lady friends?

[Anonymous]

I mean I love her and all but I also know she's a wild one. Likes to get drunk. Smoke weed. Willing to take ectasy or coke. She has a verocius sexual apetite. Always tries to find any little thing she can to get mad at me.. I really do love her. Just worried if I should be worried. and worried lf I'm just waiting to get left. We're. Both 28.. Ladies, can I or should I trust a women like this that I'm already in love with.. Help, she's in Miami

[Anonymous]

Reminds me of my ex.. she went on a work trip for 2 months. I never had problems with her cheating and all. Well after this trip she came back and said her roommate was a guy. And he did everything for her and she banged him and says he's better than me.

So remember if you're g.f IS spending lots of time with a guy around it's possibly. I hate to say it, but many women that spend time with a guy over and over again sometimes get feelings for them. I think it happened to my ex, after 3 years of being together she spent 2 months with this guy and he tried his hardest to get in bed with her and he did it... sad to say I trusted her and never once would've or did accuse her of cheating while on her trip.

So in my opinion... just be ready if there is bad news.

[Anonymous]

Depends.. my friend is REALLY good with the ladies. He could easily get a high and drunk chic in bed even if she is married.

In fact he can get married women in bed when they are sober.

So it all depends on the girl, but if the guy is good enough sometimes it doesn't matter.

I've seen the most faithful fall too.

[Anonymous]

Has she cheated on you before or do you think she ever would? If not, then I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. The drug use may be worrisome though...it's one thing to not cheat when you're of sound mind, but once drugged up who knows what you'll do.

[Asker]

She hasn't cheated.. That I know of.. But sometimes she's always trying

To find a reason to be mad at me. Like if she's guilty about something. And she's always

Quick to leave me when she's upset about something. Should I let go

[Opinion Owner]

If you don't let her go, she may resent you for controlling that. Instead, have a talk with her. Don't accuse of her of planning on cheating or fighting with you while she's there, but just let her know that you love her and will miss her and can't wait to ravage her when she gets back ;) If she seems distant while she's on the trip, call her out on it but, again, not in an accusatory way. If you bring up your worries while telling her how much you care, she'll realize you're there for her

[Opinion Owner]

and (hopefully) that will stick with her throughout the trip so she doesn't do anything to f*** it up.

[missatlas]

gotta let her go and don't b controlling. Gauge her behavior when she returns and you will know if somethings up

[Anonymous]

You know her best. She likes to party but is she a cheater?

[alltheabove1212]

If someone's going to cheat, there's nothing you can do about it. And talking to her, showing insecurity, etc will only make her want to do it more. If she's never betrayed you before then you have to trust her. If she f***s up you cut her loose

[VeteranSoldier]

Hell yeah, I have never met a woman single or taken who behaved themselves when in a group of girls/women out on the night and add Liquor to the mix and my friend you have a POWDER KEG.

Trouble in every scenario

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It's natural to be anxious about her trip. But she's not given you any hints that she'd cheat on you already - I wouldn't think you'd have to worry now.

[DexHawk2]

your prob thinking that she prob having sex with another guy right ? but sometimes we guys over think . so it'd be best to contact her lady friends and ask them how they're doing and hows your Girlfriend doing ? ight mate?

[mshaker]

You know her the best. If she's done something in the past to screw your trust over, you can bet it will probably happen again.

[MyNameIsJonas]

Are her lady friends also in relationships or single?

[red324]

Talk to her female friends, Tell them to try to take care of her and keep her out of trouble cause they know how crazy she can get. They probably will cause they'll appreciate the fact that you care

[Anonymous]

Well if she's never cheated, leave her be and let her party.