Do you ever get jealous when you see couples in public?

[Bornnardmt]

I'm 23, single, shy, I am in college, and couldn't get a girlfriend to save my life. Meanwhile, I see other guys can women with utter ease, and I can't even get one to like me. Honestly, when I see couples in public I am not happy for them at all. When I see couples at my college, I am not happy for them at all. When I see couples photos on Facebook, I am not happy for them at all. Overall, I am not happy for other couples when I see them. I might sound bitter, because I am. Do you ever feel this way?

[cun7n1nja]

Sometimes. Depends on how lonely I am at the time or how sadly my own situation is working out. Usually I think seeing couples together is sweet [assuming they're not all over each other and removing clothing], especially if they're an older couple who have obviously been together for a long time and still love each other intensely. They make me smile. Of course sometimes I wish I had that [assuming I don't at the time]. But then other times I DO have that [though obviously it's been temporary thus far], so I see more of the beauty in it, because I'm feeling a little slice of what they're feeling. I try not to be jealous though, I'm still on the quest. =]

[icehot]

Nope, I don't feel jealousy nor do I feel happy for them, I'm rather neutral to the entire situation.. If it's someone I know, for example my parents, brothers, sisters, etc, then yeah, If I see them with someone they love, I do feel happy for them.. but random people on the street? Not at all, no feelings, nor good nor bad.. Just nothing.. and yes I'm single. Maybe you need to get into a relationship, you are in need of affection I think.

[fancykat1]

No but I get annoyed by the loud smacking sound I hear from some couples when they kiss. When I see a couple out in public holding hands and kissing, I think it is so sweet especially if the couple seems like they're truly in love with each other.

[VeohTV]

I may get a little jealous cause I too myself am single, but I choose to stay single, cause if a girl makes the first move by wanting me, I'll reject her. I don't want her to think it's easy for her to get a man but it's harder for guys to get a woman, after he made the first move.

This is what I know, you shouldn't be envy seeing people in lovely relationships, otherwise God won't bless you. if you accept who you are, then greater things will happen to you in the future.

[Bornnardmt]

I envy them

[Anonymous]

In the past yes, but now I've long since realized how foolish that is

[IHateBeingaMan]

all the time, so often, that I sometimes feel like saying this to a girl in front of her boyfriend to provoke a fight to vent out my anger and jealousy, but only if I was physically strong enough to literally beat up anyone I desire:

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=bF_iiX1HepM

[CrashRyan]

I usually feel glad for them but sometimes, especially if I havnt been out much I feel more lonely and thinking what good is he for her or questioning why are they together when I don’t have someone. Deep down I feel glad for them but personally I just feel like I’m being left out. Sometimes seeing a couple on Facebook or twitter will just make me close the app for a few hours lol.

[Prof_Don]

I'm single by choice atm and I do get the occasional "it'd be nice to have a lady companion" moments when out in public sometimes, but it passes quickly.

[Prettygurl12]

No, I have a boyfriend so I'd fall into the category of people you apparently hate :p

[Hamburgers]

Only sometimes, for different reasons.

If the couple consisted of an Asian woman and a White male, I can't help but feel sorry for her racial inferiority complex. Or if a White female is with a Black male, her liking him because she fetishizes his stereotype, etc.

Other than things like that, I'd say no.

[Bornnardmt]

That sounds kind of racist

[Hamburgers]

Well, it's not. I don't hate any of the mentioned races, think I'm superior, or them inferior.

[doctorwhofan23]

All the time I get nervous to say hi to her even. I just wish I could get her to like me.

[palek]

Sometimes I knock them down.

[moviedude714]

all the time I do