Questions: Relationships

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I've NEVER forgotten a birthday or holiday before, I always make him cakes and handmade birthday cards and buy him gifts. I love holidays like that and he knows it.

I was anticipating his birthday all of June and then July crept up so fast... We've been arguing a lot lately and I can't help but to feel like that's really why he's so upset, bc this seems really out of character.

He said "you forgetting my birthday really shows your character" and I when I apologized profusely all he said was "whatever"

I feel terrible for forgetting but he's making me feel like the shittiest person ever.

This isn't like me to forget, I don't know where my mind has been.

I’m not really thinking if it from the Angie they are fakers. Let’s assume for arguments sake, they believe they are really into you. So for me it’s just too arbitrary. I don't know why you like me so I would have no idea what it is you believe I am and I have no way of knowing if there’s anything at all substantial between us. Leaving out the sign if impulsivity of that person as well, my concern I think Stems from the ambiguity of the situation. I’m uncomfortable when I have no way of assessing an event I’m involved in including relations. Anyone else?

Remember I’m not asking g about “ their potential pathology” just in how it might make you personally feel uneasy in your own life.

Some people just attach quick and have a solid idea if who they are and just bc they like eoneobe readily it doesn’t mean they are bonkers plus it’s hypothetical it’d just be conjecture but what we all do know is how we personally feel about how stuff affects us—-so I’m not really asking about their supposed side of the equation but yours 😊