Why you should treat everyone well, no matter what they do/did to you (Page 2)

[Babygirl_S]

I'm not strong enough to treat someone well if they treat me badly.

[Sweety2087]

Same here especially since I found out about narcissism. I have to see my ex next month and will be cutting contact with him. People are going to go up in arms but I need to protect my energy and he just approaches me because he wants everyone to think he's a good person. While he cheated on me and then smeared my name from the start of the relationship until now.

[Moan_Chomsky]

@Sweety2087 @Sweety2087 The chances you ex is a narcissist is very, VERY low. Less than 1% of the population qualifies; and just about everybody thinks at least one ex of theirs is a narcissist. It is largely a bogeyman- something we use to devalue folks when they don't meet our emotional needs. It is very common for both partners to claim the other is a narcissist when they break up. We may be on different "wavelengths" though, and "vibrating poorly". The OP, too. The Law of Vibration or Attraction or what-have-you are useful metaphors perhaps, but on a philosophical level more than anything else. Everybody is the bad guy/girl in somebody else's story.

[Sweety2087]

@Moan_Chomsky Okay.

[veronicagirl97348]

of course if someone is mad at me i would want to at least know why. and try to resolve it and to apologize if needed. meh

[gag2021]

I agree! Thanks for sharing! Life on Earth is too short to hold grudges toward anyone.

[kingz96]

Wow this is amazing, you’re amazing for taking the time to type it.

[LegendaryIcon]

so should i, as a jew, treat hitler, well?

[dudewithnoname]

Practice what you preach…

[supercutebutt]

Even Trumptards?

[Grubhub]

That’s the truth