Is the guy I am dating being too forward and intense?

[Anonymous]

(18-24)
I have recently started to date a guy who is a christian, and shares my faith. We exchanged messages back and fourth for a few weeks before meeting, and I have now been on one date with him. The date went really well and he bought me chocolate, and then texted me soon after the date telling me he was definitely up for meeting again and asked me if I wanted to go on a second date with him and that he likes to plan ahead. We have now arranged a second date.

Since arranging the date, he messages me, and the other day he sent me a message asking me if I had read any religious books on the topic of dating because he wants to approach dating in a different way to his family and friends who aren't religious, and wants to be Godly. He also said after getting to know each other, that we should read books together to get more familiar with the idea of christian dating

Is he being too forward, and should I be cautious about him?

[Logorithim]

Different guys have different styles when it comes to dating and getting to know a woman, but I don't see anything there to indicate he is being too forward and intense. Of course, you shouldn't do anything you're not comfortable with, and communicate that. if necessary.

[Anonymous]

''... we should read books together to get more familiar with the idea of christian dating''

[Paris13]

He is Witnessing to You, Which is Fine Here, dear.
However, tell him You Would Like to Get to know Him as Well and Be together To Witness to One another.
Show Boundaries But always keep God/Jesus Centered in the Middle of your Circle First. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xx

[Tamera952]

Why don’t you have a three-way with Jesus and ask him maybe he can give you some advice

[luvstoned4him]

Nah, sounds normal to me. he just seems like he wants to do the right thing.

[kittyluv]

He´s being way too religious, kind of sectarian. Total weirdo. Runnn!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Just study the bible together. And make sure it isn't a water down version like NIV, NLT etc.

Pick a NKJV Bible. Wish you the best.

[Paris13]

King James. xx

[PrjS16]

I personally am forward as well, and I think you should have just a little bit of caution, but just be glad he's interested in sharing his faith with you, since most men won't

[analyst69]

Just you having to ask means you have concerns, communicate with him about your feelings. Relationships are about what flaws your willing to except, nobodys perfect!

[Anonymous]

I think it's great if that's really what he wants not like it's going to hurt but sounds like your not ready for that

[Anonymous]

Religion in dating

basically. no sex, until marriage

it's also a sin to cheat

trumps not a christian

[AngelLily]

He seems like a good guy I say go for it.