Do you agree with people who say God gives love when your not pursuing a relationship?

I think if somebody wants to find love, they have to have things that are more important to them then their relationship such as their job, their kids, their house keeping, their friends, their family, their education, their health, their religion, and their morals, since nobody would marry somebody who did not care at about at least 1/2 of those things.

Do you agree with people who say God gives love when your not pursuing a relationship?
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