I really need help?

[DelayedMist]

I have so many problems, I’m too selfish and I even formulated a plan of how to live life properly, but where do I start, where does it begin? What should I focus on? How much can I focus on at a time and how can I make it possible to not obsess over basic stuff and not be afraid if I make the choice of removing the list and as a result being worried that I will forget important things that I need to do like maintaining good relationships and making better choices. Do I need to make a schedule of every single thing I do a day. I’m also impatient and lazy, someone help me :(.

This is the plan I formulated of living life properly

[watercolor_lions]

Hey! It sounds like you need an accountability partner to help you! Would you like to be one with me?

[DelayedMist]

Sure :)

[watercolor_lions]

It's great that you want to change your life. But something you have to understand is, you have your whole life to figure life out. It is all our first time being human. So you will have to slow down a bit.

Taking it one day at a time is the most important thing. God is infinitely in every moment of our lives. So we have him to help us every second of every day. And we just take it step by step. Day by day.

I highly recommend meditating/reading your Bible first thing in the morning. It will help you focus your day and make doing everything else easier. Celebrate small accomplishments always. And practice gratitude, to God, others, and yourself.

[DelayedMist]

Thankyou so much 😭! I really believe God has spoken to me through you. So it’s also about doing and less planning :).

[watercolor_lions]

It's about prayer. When we pray, we enable the Holy Spirit to help us.

There have been so many times I've prayed, "God, I don't want you right now, so help me want you" (or something to that effect), and the Holy Spirit moves and helps me.

One of the most important truths God as taught me is, "No matter what you think, no matter what you feel, no matter what you believe, you were created to be loved first and love back second." We are CHILDREN. And children receive love first, and learn to love by example.

If you follow the two greatest commandments of God, you will achieve all of your goals.

[DelayedMist]

Yes, so God will basically establish situations and the people in our lives in order for use to do things like taking care of ourselves, developing hobbies, making new friends and falling in love?

[DelayedMist]

I also have this problem with like feeling the need to write every choice down, like do I need to do this?

[watercolor_lions]

Write every choice down? What do you mean?

[DelayedMist]

I feel like I need to plan things before I do them, and I’m like talking all things.

[Guy13]

Throw any God related questions at me that you like…I don’t bruise easily 💪