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Search Results: the friend zone
Why would a guy say this?
So, I like (d) this guy we messaged and texted most of the days, and he knew I like him and found him attractive. He'd never say one way or the other on his end and the conversations would get more personal and frequent,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is there a chance for more?
I'm in a new city to handle a contract project. The project lead is a gorgeous Brazilian woman that has come to the US site for this company to lead it, so technically she's my onsite manager. We went out to a bar last...
Stoic_Noble
Xper 1 Age: 38 Is it wrong that I refuse to get more involved in politics?
do vote in the primaries, but I don't really get involved with local politics much. I could be going to meetings, and volunteer. The reason is because I Have pretty bad social anxiety, and it would just be way out of my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, when you hug a friend or colleague, how often are their hands lower on your back than they should be?
I'm sure you know what I mean. Their hands can be high up on your back, or they can be in the small of your back, or they're moving down towards the danger zone. There's also the side hand where they might try to catch a...
stratford
Yoda Age: 37 Getting friendzoned?
I find I get friend zoned a lot and I’m not sure why. What makes a guy put a girl in the friendzone (behaviours, looks etc) and can I get out of it? If so, how?
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he staring at me on purpose or is he zoned out?
I have 4 classes with my crush. I have seen him staring at me every day for the past 2 months in 3 out of the 4 classes. (The other class he sits behind me, so I can’t see him). The stares last anywhere from 1-4 seconds....
Anonymous
(Under 18) A guy I was involved with a few years ago just told me he likes me and that he "even has a certain level of love for me." How should I take that?
We were a thing off and on for about 8 months over 2 years ago. It was long-distance and we started fighting. We were just doomed from the start. He constantly joked about wanting to marry me and have kids with me, and I...
SlowestCheetah
Xper 2 Age: 30 Boyfriend is curious about my farts?
I don't know how to ask this question, so I'll start by saying that we've been together for over a year. We started as friends and we were always very comfortable with each other and opened up easily. Even when we were in...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex situationship that I haven't seen in 2.5 years just told me he likes me & "has a certain level of love for me." What should I think of that?
We started out more as a dating scenario, but it was long-distance (7hr). Everytime I felt like we were getting too close, I'd break it off. I thought he was stringing me along. I don't know. But then, he'd come back...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you actually believe the friendzone is real?
Despite what you may think, opposite gender friends do not only agree to become your friend because they find you attractive. They might genuinely want to be a friend. So even if all your opposite gender friends are...
Twalli
Master Age: 35 Should I feel dumb for being ignored by people who I put more value then what they gave me?
We live 5 hrs away and never met in person. He tried for months to be in a relationship with me but I put him on the friend zoned multiple times because my gut feeling and his arrogance told me I was not going to try...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Can’t I Get Over a Toxic Friendship?
So I stopped being friends with my sister-in-law because I came to the realization that she isn’t content unless she has drama in her life. And I was one of the people she targeted over the years. But I was quick to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are you kinder to women you find attractive?
As a teenager I was well aware that I wasn’t considered attractive to guys. I wasn’t obese but I was chubby, I had thick eyebrows and I suffered with acne. Next to my friend who was and still is incredibly beautiful, I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men fumble good women?
So I have been seeing this guy who is basically out of my league. By that I mean, he doesn't have money, he doesn't have a car, and he can barely hold a job. I hold 2 bachelor's degrees, I have a good career making 6...
Anonymous
(30-35) Feelings un a situationship?
So I've been in a situationship for almost a year. We have an amazing connection and are each other's emotional support. The sex is lacking abit and it's at the point where he's mowing my lawns and offering money when...
JC1981
Xper 5 Age: 45 Am I friend zoned?
I have gone on four dates with this guy. The first three dates have been coffee dates. He is very random with his texting. He will send a couple texts and thats it. I posted a few pictures of hiking and one day he...
Anonymous
(36-45) Friend showing romantic interest in me suddenly asking about past relationships and talking about not being stable to be in one?
So male friend who flirts a lot we talk on the phone a lot (doesn’t live near me) tonight was asking me all about how long I’d been single for and why and many questions. He then started talking about him needing a proper...
Finfin1981
Xper 5 Age: 45 Why did she ask this?
I talk to this lady that lives in a different time zone, we're both into eachother but decided to not get into a relationship because of the distance She is going to fly over and visit me soon and she asked if I had any...
Anonymous
(30-35) Were you ever "just a friend" without wanting to be one?
You can take this in multiple ways: 1. You got friend-zoned. 2. You were the side piece. (Y'know when they tell their S/O that you're just a friend and they don't have to worry about anything.) 3. Other.. Never had 1...
Lisia
Explorer Age: 22 Fell in love with my really close friend (girl) who is married. I really felt like she was leading me on, but she says I'm only a friend. What to do?
We met 1 year back in grad school. We used to chat almost everyday. The way she was looking at me, I felt like there was something more. Multiple instances - glances (even when she thinks I can't see her), blushing, long...
Anonymous
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