Search Results: dating an older girl

Does a 4 year age gap really feel like a difference for an older man?

I’m dating this guy who is 32 and I’m 28. Sometimes he’ll say things like, “when you’re my age ___” and compare to someone my age or like even during sex sometimes he has called me little girl, and just the dynamic...

Anonymous

(30-35)

28m, struggled with dating/female relationships all my life, what can I do?

I am a 28-year-old guy. I have never been in a serious relationship but have had one casual fling about seven years ago with a girl who actually was very direct and made a move on me. She apparently saw my comments online...

Rickyrick12

Xper 5 Age: 30

How to help him?

I have an older brother. He was interested in a girl and things were looking well for him. But then she ended things and it really hurt him. I know few girls who were interested in him and one my friend wants him. But he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it true if you have sex with a boyfriend he won’t marry you and if you get married guy will never leave you or cheat on you? ?

My mom would tell me this as a child and now as an adult. She said you can never have sex with a boyfriend, or he won’t marry you. If you get married man will stay forever with you. Yet I see people divorced single moms,...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Flirting

Am in university— if I want to meet a girl the “old fashioned way”, what would be an acceptable place to do so?

I’m a university sophomore (19 going on 20 in May, so no bars and I don’t plan to get a fake lmao) who’s just starting to grow more confident in themselves. I absolutely despise dating apps (due to some really bad...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why is this guy so confusing?

My questions are always about the same fella lol, but I blame him for being so confusing. Let me catch you up. So I've had a guy best friend for two years now. We've always had a dynamic that outsiders told me was...

RosieGurl

Xper 3 Age: 24

Why do so many older men with nothing going for them think they’re automatically desirable to young women?

I often hear, “She’s used up any nobody wants an older woman. Older men are very desirable though!” When I really don’t see that being the case, other than when grooming high school girls or freshly graduated teenagers....

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

What Do Guys Want to Know About Girls?

There are always questions we have about the opposite sex. It bothers us, we need to know, we don't understand, so here are a few. As per usual, I DO NOT SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN, just my own experience, so chill if you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Break Up & Divorce

How does one go from thinking you are “the most amazing person” she “has ever met” to thinking “we’re not meant to be” 12 hours later?

I’ve been talking for about a week with what seemed to be an amazing woman of 28 years old with two young children. We met on a dating website. She showed interest and initiated first contact with me. She seemed very...

PositiveFlight

Yoda Age: 49

Is it wrong to continue my relationship with a girl if she left her man for me, and she probably would’ve done it anyways if I didn’t find out?

So I made an older post on here about my girlfriend, and most of you guys were telling me that she’s using me. But I didn’t listen. Long story short, I met this girl online. I didn’t know she had a fiancé till lots of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Whats the best way to handle someone who is in love with fantasy of who they think you are vs. who you really are?

I have had this happen twice in my life. It was age relationships too where I was older. Both relationships ended very badly. One girl treated me like I was less than human when she broke up (unnecessarily said some very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My crush likes my friend. He is enjoying her attention and sees it as an opportunity. But I don't think he likes her the way I do. What do I do now?

This might be a common situation but still I'd really appreciate some help. So here's a little bit of my background. I am a 20-year-old guy studying in college. I'm an introvert and less expressive person so I have a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would it be wrong to try to show a guy he has me as an option despite him “dating” a girl he’s never met?

I’m really attracted to a 39 y/o from my workplace. Very average looking with a dad bod and dark hair and really awesome eyes, definitely my type. We hit it off so well and there’s so much chemistry but we live in Ontario...

Audiofox

Xper 5 Age: 37

When did G@G become an incel site?

I used to have a Girls ask Guys account in high school when I was just a confused little teen asking about my crushes. I felt like at the time it was mostly other confused teens and young adults trying to figure out what...

NeverknowNeverTell

Xper 3 Age: 25

I used to have a Girls ask Guys account in high school when I was just a confused little teen asking about my crushes. I felt like at the time it was mostly other confused teens and

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My sister may be dating her ex's best friend, am I wrong to be concerned?

Please give me advice esp if you've been in a similar situation!! My little sister broke up with her ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago after 7 months. she was super in love and vice versa. After the breakup he told...

crylikeag6

Xper 2 Age: 22

I’m having doubts, do you think it’ll work out in the end?

So I’m dating this much older woman. And she’s popular on social media. I got her to talk to me, and the rest is history. We’re long distance. But there’s some issues that I’m mad about or unsure of. She said she was in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

It seems to me that are either more picky about looks vs men or less picky. But they are generally not the same level of picky?

I’ve been both unattractive and attractive in my dating life. Unattractive as a teen, told I was very attractive in my 20s and now to be realistic semi-attractive being 41 (I keep myself in shape and got all my hair.)....

Anonymous

(36-45)