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Search Results: first dates
Guys, You're out on a date... do you focus on enjoying the date or do you keep trying to chip away at the person to find their flaws?
I was on a date (hold the applause) and the guy kept asking questions as if it were a job interview, till finally I chuckled and asked, "Did you find it yet?" He asked, "Found what?" And I said, "The flaw you've...
Guys am I transphobic just bc I refused to date a man who has a past of dating a Trans woman?
English isn’t my first language, sorry if I make mistakes. I moved to Seattle about a year ago. I met a guy and we were seeing each other, everything was fine. Then I saw an old photo on his social media from a couple...
Selingrmn
Xper 1 Age: 24 Good or bad move to contact the other woman/man?
I wonder what u think about is the right move to make if u suspect or know your partner has someone else in their lives and you suspect cheating, to contact this person or not? In my past dad cheated. Mom contacted the...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 Showing up on the first date with an eczema outbreak?
I matched with this guy on a dating app a few days ago. We hit it off well chat wise so far, so we want to meet up preferably the upcoming weekend for low stakes coffee at a cafe. Only thing is: since about a week i have...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 Should I be worried?
As a first date I suggested we clean out my creepy basement and she not only thought I was serious, she said yes.
Why do men have sex with me then ghost me?
This has happened for the third time The first time was someone I worked with he was obsessed with me we had sex for around two weeks then he just went weird. The time we had sex first he lasted 3 seconds then the next...
Anonymous
(30-35) The bible says if you reject good advice, your toil will enrich another man's house when your body and flesh is spent, thoughts?
The bible says the house represents your mind, so I always thought this verse meant that other people would learn from your mistakes while you would continue clueless and blind to the reasons your life has the types of...
Am I supposed to be alone?
yesterday I had to leave work per ambulance because my just got really squeezing and pain in my chest that spread to the both sides of my pectoral, and pain started tingling upwards through my neck to the bottom of my...
Dbman99
Xper 2 Age: 48 He hopes we can?
Why would a guy say he “hopes we can kick it again after our first date”.. instead of just asking me or planning something?
Anonymous
(25-29) If a guy wants marry you and you don’t like him back, does that mean he’s love of your life and soulmate, the one?
I’m asking as I’m almost 30 and never met a guy that I love that loves me back. I never had a serious relationship. I crush on guys and they show interest back but never serious like meeting family or living together , no...
Anonymous
(25-29) How is it like date a guy with kids? how do you get time to meet&date?
I once met a guy on a dating app. He had a kid he had see Sundays. We met in the car , no date he wanted sex & we shared a drink. I don’t let him have sex. We just madeout. But he wouldn’t text much, no plans for dates,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people cheat instead of breaking up first? If you wanna sleep with someone else, just... leave?
I don't understand this dynamic. Like they should just go say out loud that they are going to go date the person they actually want to sleep with. People don't have to be halfway and dishonest about it.
GeorgePulchri
Xper 2 Age: 30 Am I intransigent or petty for not allowing hugs, kisses or another kind of physical intimacy in the first dates?
When I date someone, I normally don't allow anyone to invade my personal space until there is more trust, which can happen if there are certain conditions, specifically if the feelings reciprocate. But until now, I have...
Rei02
Explorer Age: 40 Dating again for the first time since 2019. And its not going well so far?
I am currently a 29F. I had been in a relationship between June 2019-March 2025. My ex dumped me, but in hindsight I am very happy the relationship ended. I took some time to really woek on myself. I have been in therapy...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 Is he cheap and a red flag?
So, I went on a date with this guy before, but there wasn’t really strong chemistry. He asked me out again and now says, “You’ll drive me, I’ll pay for dinner,” because his car is in the service. On the first date we went...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is wrong with this woman?
We've known eachother for years. She's very attractive and I've never pursued her. In fact the whole reason were friends is because she asked me on a date and I told her we would make a terrible couple but great friends....
How to keep a woman engaged through text messing?
I’ve been texting a few girls and honestly, I’m really just horrible with the performative stuff. The flirting and flirty messages, how to get them interested beyond matching, etc. They’re very pretty women but I struggle...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
How are you on your healing journey?
First of all I’d like to wish everyone a very merry Christmas and happy new year yesterday was not ideal as, I am an autistic adult, 48, I also suffer severely from intrusive thoughts and OCD. I did call 988 yesterday I...
Dbman99
Xper 2 Age: 48 Who generally is expected to pay for the first day these days?
My question is complicated for a complicated world. The rules of dating are not what they once were. Who usually pays for a first date these days? Do you split it? Does the woman pay if the woman does the asking (which...
MerryMaria
Xper 1 Age: 38 