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How do you differentiate between intuition and anxiety?

I’m aware that I have trust issues so I try to not listen to my relationship anxiety too much. But sometimes it’s really hard for me to differentiate between my intuition telling me something’s wrong vs my anxiety that...
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Why do single friends distance from the ones that start dating?

I didn't change just because I'm dating someone, I still offered girls-nightouts, and when our whole group would organize hangouts (usually by me) , sometimes my Man comes too because he wants to get to know them, but not...
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My boyfriend makes some comments I find uncomfortable over my friends?

So I have a lovely boyfriend that I’ve been dating for a year now. We are long distance and comes every month once or twice to see me. Since he lives with his parents it’s quite hard for me to go there constantly but I...
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My boyfriend makes some strange comments towards my friends or am I being insecure?

So I have a lovely boyfriend that I’ve been dating for a year now. We are long distance and comes every month once or twice to see me. Since he lives with his parents it’s quite hard for me to go there constantly but I...
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I've always had a hard time smiling at women and feel that's why they never look at me too long only, only blank glances?

I've always had a hard time smiling in general, I've always hears I should do it more often and not look serious all the time but majority all you'll really get out of me is a light smirk. The biggest flaw for me is that...
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Why I can’t find love?

A few weeks ago, I posted on here about the man that I was talking to. On Tuesday he decided to call it quits with me. I was shocked when he told me, everything was going so good. He respected me and made me feel wanted...
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Should I end it with her or wait?

I’ve been dating this woman since mid-July. Last night on the phone, she confessed to me that since the second date, she’s only seen me as just a friend. I asked her if she wants to stop dating. She said no and that she...
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Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌

I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...
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Question for Leftists #6: Feminism is a national Security Risk. Do you agree?

Why am I asking about feminism? Because people - predominantly Leftists - practice and/or support feminism. Anyway, let me explain: 1) I've heard that the US military has issues hiring, due to low enrollment numbers and...
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I have a hard time finding a girlfriend?

I'm noy going to lie. I am stuck in my moms house. I am getting older and want a girlfriend. To get married and start a family too. I am 42 though. Things just never worked out. I tried to go to college but my mother...
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Is it strange for me to be "fascinated" by my new (and first) girlfriend after 23 years of almost no attention from women?

If the title sounds strange, I'll clarify. So as you can probably guess by my username, I'm shy. Very shy. And my whole life I've neither had female nor male friends. So the lack of attention is not just from women. I...
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Is it safe to say this relationship is over and how should I handle it?

Last week my boyfriend ignored me for 4 days in which I assumed he was ghosting me but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt that he was going through something mentally. By the 4th day I was fed up because one...
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Is it a problem that my mental health will always be more important than the people in my life?

I have to be careful how I balance things. It's like I'm always spinning a bunch of plates and balancing on a beam and I have a little wiggle room but if I go too far I'll have to pay a big price later on for whatever I'm...
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Is my ex trying to keep me attached?

It's been several months since we ended but he has moved on to someone else in a heartbeat. I've been stuck in place and having a hard time accepting what we had is over. While he's been dating this girl, he still calls...
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Was he trying to use me for sex?

Went on a date 2 weeks ago with a guy I was super attracted to. We met at an event. He came and picked me up and planned everything. He took me mini golfing and paid for everything. It was cute and thoughtful. After we...
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How to get him back ?

I have my first boyfriend he was a first ever guy that ever nice to me we were off and on for like 3years and lately I got a restraining order from him for a year. The reason I got a restraining order is last couple...
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How does one even find halfway decent employees?

It’s like every time you hire someone they’re worse then the last. You can’t get rid of them because there’s nobody else and the options you do have are worse. Besides that they’ve been there for 30 days by the time you...
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How can I tell If this guy has a crush on me?

I am trying to tell if one of my guy friends has a crush on me, and I am just missing the signs or if he is just being his nice caring self and I am delusion cause either was I am extremely socially awkward. We have been...
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Why did he block my number but still dms me on instagram?

I met this guy online in Nov-Dec 2023 and began dating long-distance (7 hours away). We hung out once in person in Feb 2023, and things were fine all throughout that time. I moved closer to him for school in March, and we...
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How can I overcome the pressure from my family to get married and have kids?

My dad has cancer and is in the process of getting genetic testing done. He told me that he didn’t even know if the information would be worth sharing because he doesn’t know if he’ll ever get grandchildren. My dad has...
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