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I’m 27, a vegan, and I’ve never had a serious long-term relationship. I’m a vegan because I grew up in a conservative Seventh-day Adventist (SDA) Christian household. Long, story short, SDAs, especially more conservative ones believe in a prophetess named Ellen G. White and she has a health message where she encourages believers to be vegan and not drink coffee. My parents imparted these ways on me. I’ve tried eating meat here and there, but it’s rarely tasted good or I’m slow at eating it.

The one short-term relationship that I’ve had was with a fellow vegan in the church, but on the 2nd date she ate my food and she never showed me any affection (we never held hands or kissed).

Other girls in the church either had more liberal parents that let them eat meat, or they want a guy that’s not in church, or they want some extremely long courtship process and have ridiculously high standards.

My parents projected a lot onto me growing up. They wanted me to be this superstar academically and stressed education. I never went to any SDA schools because my parents thought their education standards were too low. Part of me regrets not going to one because I feel like I could’ve met a girl who’d like me. But now at my church, there’s barely any girls.

When I look outside on dating apps like Hinge & Bumble, I rarely get matches and dates, but when I do it’s like they can sense something’s wrong with me. For instance, I went on a date with a girl and ordered a chicken pasta out of fear of being rejected for ordering something vegan. I didn’t finish it and she thought that was weird. She ghosted me after the date.

Even had a friend in church recommend her friend outside of church to me. We had a lot in common from liking the same basketball players and teams to traveling to different countries. But she said she doesn’t date any kind of vegetarian.

I feel so behind socially and hopeless. My parents say I’m suffering for Christ so it’s ok. I think that’s a load of crap.

Hi!

I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date.
No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take things slow. But yet she said she felt like friends after first date. I guess it's coz her breakup still is fresh.

Now she tells me the classic excuse "I don't know what I want, I need to find myself" etc.
She broke up with her Ex 6months ago, from a 9yrs relationship, so I suspect they're now might trying to rekindle things, since accourding to her they're still "friends". They also reacts (he likes hers, she hearts his) to eachothers posts... "as friends"... Which to me it sounds more as "friends".. But yet again, just an post-reaction on FB...

Now when I was looking around abit (yes, stalking), I found out that the day after our first date, she had a photo with her ex and his mother.. which also... I don't know... weird?

After she made her excuse, I more or less told her to reconnect when she's ready and made a blanter joke refering to our dates.
She laughed, in other words, I left with a good expression and she knows my intentions.
This was 1 week ago.

Summerize.
Again, I suspect she was testing the waters..
How big of a chance do you guys think she will reconnect?
Have you guys tested the waters (I guess without even tell the current relationship) before and end up singles anyway within a year?