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So I'm talking to 2 guys from a dating app.. READ ALL:

Man A: he was sending me hearts and saying my face lips are nice etc and he was kinda getting sexual so I said im a virgin and am waiting for marriage. He said he doesn't think he can wait. So I said well then lets cancel our date but you seam very nice so wish you all the best. Then now he text back and said he wants to meet and he will have to wait for me. Is he lying? Cause i not gonna change my mind its been 24 years I've said no so far I dont wanna waste my time or his.

Man B: Is older he is 9 years older than me. He hasent said anything sexual not evan sent heart. He wants to meet in town to walk around and look in fun shops/eat waffles. He has 2 cats he talk about a lot and he wants a family like me. He is very introverted which I like. I haven't told him im waiting cause he seams more ready to settle down.. I mean im 24 he is 33 and he wants kids so maybe he is serious or he just wanna have fun?

SERIOUS=Can wait until marriage/wants family etc basically settle down not trying to just have a fun fling.

I followed a cosplayer on Instagram. He’s basically mixed race. He’s a half New Zealand and Indonesian. He posted with these pronouns she/he/they. He can understand and speak English, Indonesian. I admired how he got a perfectly feminine look after that surgery. Should I ask him when he has gotten it and how the recovery is like? Although he changed his gender he still has that mixed race look which makes him a beautiful woman. I wish he didn’t go under the knife so I can have a chance with him. I have this feeling he’s a dreamy young man but it’s a bit of a waste but not entirely because he might get a boyfriend who’s accepting of him. As a huge fan of him is it appropriate or am I being a busybody?

(Your name),

These past few weeks have been "tearable" (inside joke) but also a huge wake-up call. I’ve done a lot of thinking, and you were right — I needed to get my life together.

I know my choices, especially with drinking, have hurt us. I’m proud to say that today marks one full month sober. I haven’t touched alcohol since that awful night and I never want to again. This time apart has made me realize you mean so much more to me than any bad habit. To make sure I stay on track, I started taking Naltrexone and I begin counseling on November 3rd. This isn’t another empty promise, it's a real change.

In the past month, I’ve passed my real estate exam, picked up extra shifts to pay off my debt, and even started going to the gym again (though I miss my gym partner). I’m doing these things for myself and because I want to be the kind of woman you once believed I could be.

You’ll always be someone I imagined building a life with. No matter what happens, please know how much I love you and how grateful I am that you have been a huge part of pushing me to become my best self.

Whatever happens next, thank you — truly — for everything.

With love,
Emma