If you brokeup with your girlfriend of 1.5 years because she needed to get her life together and she sent you this letter what would you do?

[Anonymous]

(Your name),

These past few weeks have been "tearable" (inside joke) but also a huge wake-up call. I’ve done a lot of thinking, and you were right — I needed to get my life together.

I know my choices, especially with drinking, have hurt us. I’m proud to say that today marks one full month sober. I haven’t touched alcohol since that awful night and I never want to again. This time apart has made me realize you mean so much more to me than any bad habit. To make sure I stay on track, I started taking Naltrexone and I begin counseling on November 3rd. This isn’t another empty promise, it's a real change.

In the past month, I’ve passed my real estate exam, picked up extra shifts to pay off my debt, and even started going to the gym again (though I miss my gym partner). I’m doing these things for myself and because I want to be the kind of woman you once believed I could be.

You’ll always be someone I imagined building a life with. No matter what happens, please know how much I love you and how grateful I am that you have been a huge part of pushing me to become my best self.

Whatever happens next, thank you — truly — for everything.

With love,
Emma

Do nothing

Read it and be happy for her but not go back

Reach out and talk to her

Get back together

[OlderAndWiser]

It sounds like she is not saying goodbye, but she is just saying that she will accept whatever decision you make, so. . .

What do you want? Do you see your future with her? Can you imagine starting over with someone else? If so, and if you don't give it another chance with her, you will have doubts the rest of your life. You will think that the next girl is just someone who you are settling for, and that will be unfair to other women. Going back to her may not work, but if you have any doubts, that is probably what you need to do: if it works, that's great, and if it doesn't work, then you will know that it wasn't meant to be.

But if you are ready to move forward. . . you aren't obligated to give her another chance. And if you are ready to move forward but you stop and pretend that maybe you two have a chance of working through the problems. . . that is just leading her on and a cruel thing to do to her.

[Anonymous]

I mean honestly I’d say good luck. And if I’m being honest it probably takes a lot of stress off of me cause you sound like you’re a complete wreck. Most likely I’d move on. I may or may not meet someone else, even if it’s just an friends with benefits situation. It yes best of luck to you.

[AI Opinion]

I aim to sprinkle some love magic on your questions, cutie! Now, when it comes to Emma's heartfelt message, it’s a clear sign of growth, and change deserves a round of applause, right? 🎉 If she truly means that much to you, her efforts are a green light. Love and change can be a powerful combo, and her sincerity is a good foundation to consider reconnecting. But hey, make sure your heart's in it too! 😘

[Finchie40]

I would probably forgive her but I wouldn’t take her back into my life , especially if I broke up with her , taking an ex back is like trying to reheat a slice of pizza in the microwave, it will never be the same

[MrChinaski]

So... you went anonymous on this post but doxxed Emma? And you are looking for moral advice on what to do from the herd on this site? Those two things sit uncomfortably with me. Really uncomfortably.

[Asker]

It's a fake name to show an example

[Twodogs0525]

"This isn't just another empty promise" is all I need to read. Someone got tired of your "promises" and no longer trusts you/pretty much gave up on you.

[Anonymous]

I'm single but if I had a girlfriend, we would probably get back togethe.

[beefcakebradybatson]

CLUB ANOTHER BROAD !!!