Search Results: mess up a relationship

How long is too long for friends with benefits?

It’s been almost 2 1/2 years with mine (on and off) with the longest hiatus being 2 months. We’ve ended things twice, and this is our 3rd rodeo. I call us friends with benefits but we’re technically much more than that,...

Peaceandlove89

Xper 4 Age: 36

Parents not approving of partner?

My boyfriend is really kind and loving to me, he not only treats me with this love and respect but also towards my family. My parents do not approve him because he isn't a church boy like they want for me. They made him...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Don't Try To Make Sense of Your Ex

So I wanted to make a follow-up to my previous Take Walk Away From Confusing “Signs” After A Breakup to further encourage everyone who is in this situation to keep staying strong. And to give more insight on specific...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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What to do if a guy you recently started dating already starts catching feelings for you?

I just wanted to have fun and I think he wants us to be in a relationship already. He basically already acts as if he is my boyfriend. We have just kissed. Nothing else. I think I messed up, what can I do? He’s a nice...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

I've fallen for a friend, but she has a boyfriend. I think she may be interested in me. It's starting to drag me down, what do I do?

I'll try to summarise here: Both 32. She's been in a relationship for 9 years. I don't think she's all that happy, mutual friends don't think she's all that happy. He's military, never home, and when he is he does his own...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would my boyfriend block my number instead of just breaking up with me?

We have been dating for 8 months. We have never had a single fight in the whole time we have been dating. I have met his two best friends, he met mine, & I met his brother who really liked me a lot and encouraged my...

toncar02

Xper 2 Age: 42

She doesn't understand that I've moved on?

I've been asking this woman over a month to make a phone call or send a video recording- she always has excuses my phone is messed up, there's noise in the background, or I'm busy... I finally told her her today either...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will he come back?

Recently I mess up our relationship and he left me and we've been on and off a lot but he told me we are officially over, if I give him space what is most likely chance he will come back, also all the other relationships...

Beccaasaar

Xper 5 Age: 27

Is it mess up if I can't think of having sex or a relationship like you because I have been single for so long?

So, is that normal? 🤔

poneglyphs

Guru Age: 31

Family & Friends

Dealing with Controlling sister?

I’m the youngest one of my sisters, one of them is a control freak and she keeps telling lies about me she even tried to mess up my relationships but on social media she fakes love and posting photos of us, lately she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he saving me for later or just not interested?

I have this guy who I’ve known since ‘17. We started talking heavily in ‘18 but he distanced himself b/c he didn’t want a relationship. It hurt me to separate b/c we had a strong connection & could talk about our deepest,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you still feel heart broken by your first love?

When I was 18 I worked for a event company. I worked on tours as basically abit of rowdy but I was literally the bottom of hierarchy because I was only a baby back then really. I always got the horrible jobs but that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Guy's Behavior

I think I might’ve freaked out my dude and am scared he’s going to withdraw?

I have been talking to Cody for 2 months now. Two weeks ago, HE asked me what we’re doing. He caught me off guard so we basically agreed that as long as we bring peace, loyalty & consistency to each other, we want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Do guys talk about exs or girls they think are attractive?

For context I only ask because my ex who I dated for 3 years had a very sexual past & told me everything about what he did and how many girls. He used to play mind games with old flings and I felt insecure but I did think...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend said he wants the relationship but he’s also said this. I know I do but I’m just super confused if he really does or not?

My partner said “I want this I’m trying to explain why I’m in so much pain and why my heads messed up over this relationship regardless on how the holiday goes when we’re back I will be focusing on finding myself again...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you ever move on from the one that got away? Do you have a person that comes to mind?

I met an amazing person once. At first, our relationship formed out of me teaching her English as she was new to the country and came from extreme poverty so was more concerned with survival instead of education. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you do if everyone hates you and you are truly alone in this world?

I've never had any friends, and I've tried to make friends without any luck. What relationships I have had have either resulted in the guy raping me, physically assaulting me, or emotionally abusing me. In my last...

Anonymous

(36-45)