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I’m trying to understand if it was self-sabotage or if he truly wanted out of the relationship because of me?

I was dating a guy for a few months and he told me he wanted something serious and long-term with me numerous times. He noted that his biggest insecurity was that the girl he was dating would find someone better than him...
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Do you think people who go back to cheaters are weak and lack respect for themselves?

I had a co-worker once who was married for 6 years (no kids) and only found out through his mistress who actually called her, that after a full year of sleeping with her husband (who travelled a lot for work which is why...
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Why are SOME (and not all) stay at home moms one sided and don’t love their husbands?

Why do many stay at home moms think like this? If you don’t fit this definition I’m NOT talking about you. But if you get defensive maybe you’re seeing something in yourself. A lot of them (not all) are notorious victims....
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Just discovered I was the other woman, how do I confront my partner?

I have been long distance friends with my partner a long before anything, in early 2018. I have always had a crush on him. At the time I was 17, and did lie about my age. I understand this is bad no need for lectures....
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Ten double standards that most men are just sick of when it comes to male and female relationships.

10 - When women post revealing photos for attention she's confident but when a man interacts with those photos he's cheating or at the very least he's just not as loyal. This is an annoying one. The same woman who posts...
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Am I overthinking?

Ok so I met my boyfriend when I was 19 and he was 20 and before we became official he slept with someone else. However we then decided to move on and become official, but he did Snapchat a girl who he met on a course but...
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If you have to choose, would you commit to someone whose had 5 one-year long relationships but cheated on 2 or someone who has never committed to 30?

Imagine that they both make you feel good, they admit that they love you, they have been honest, they don't show red flags aside from if you consider the partner history red flags, and they're equally physically...
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Imagine that they both make you feel good, they admit that they love you, they have been honest, they don't show red flags aside from if you consider the partner history red flags, and Show More
5 long term but cheated twice
30 partners with no commitment
They're both so great
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Cheating Ex blocked me a few months into me going into no contact, why?

So i found out my boyfriend was having an affair in the middle of us buying a house. Short version, we ended up breaking up 6 weeks later after moving into said new house. I was the one who lost everything. My home, my...
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How to determine if your child is likely yours if you have doubts

I see a lot of questions regarding infidelity and I see a surprising number of men in general saying that they had no idea they were raising a child that was not theirs. As a result I present something that may catch me...
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The Clergyman Dropped the Bombshell at My Aunts Funeral That She Had 'HIV'

It's been a couple of months since my aunt died, and I don't think any of us has recovered not only from her sudden death due to health complications, but from her actual funeral. My aunt was everybody's best friend. She...
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I acted immaturely and made my boyfriend feel disrespected and now im scared and I dont know what to do?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 weeks; we have known each other for a month. We felt an instant connection and he was the one who persued me. Honestly my previous relationship (my first one) was not...
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Do you use gag to escape reality?

I've denied but I've come to acceptance about it recently, I've also realized that everything around me either dies, rots, falls apart or changes up and for a while I was blind to the fact that this site has been an...
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Am I An Asshole For Celebrating A Person's Passing?

When I was in first grade there used to be a kid called Auramzain. He was a huge jerk. He had a typical smug looking face with a long nose (similar to Anti Semitic cartoons) and had a very annoying grin. He would lie...
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Was led on by a girl who's married, but when I confessed my feelings she denied. I'm casually dating someone else but I still think about her. Advice?

This girl was a good friend of mine. She was clearly leading me on. All my friends (men and women) felt the same too. After some point once I started feeling the same way I started dropping hints. She didn't back off or...
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Have you been cheated on before? And if so, how did things go?

I recently searched up my old ex girlfriend from so many years ago. And after seeing her, I’m like I feel so much better about myself! I no longer find her attractive. The years haven’t done her well along with her...
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What defines an affair opposed to a series of mistakes?

We are both married, both been friends over half our life; we knew each other before our current significant others. We are both in 15 year plus marriages. The past 6 months, so how, we have ended up having sex all of...
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Where can I find good men?

I’ve been single for 5 years & can’t seem to find anyone who’s worth me investing my time & love into. guys are either not looking for anything serious, not serious with life (career / finance / family values), currently...
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Should I breakup with my girlfriend?

I did really like her and we have a great connection and she’s stunning. But she went to the club without me, knowing I don’t like that. I know guys that go to the club to get laid and don’t care one bit a girl...
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I did really like her and we have a great connection and she’s stunning. But she went to the club without me, knowing I don’t like that. I know guys that go to the club to get Show More
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Do some people stay with a cheater for weeks before dumping them? If so why?

Like one of my friends stayed with a guy who cheated on her and didn't dump him till 6 months later. Is this normal?
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I have a habit of standing and watching water boil for no reason. Is that normal?

One time, I was in the kitchen preparing my usual plain pasta when I found myself mesmerized by the sight of the water starting to bubble and boil in the pot. I stood there, lost in thought, just watching the water heat...
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