Search Results: he says things that hurt

My boyfriend is too honest?

My boyfriend and me were friends previously for 2 years. We became a couple 6 months ago and have had our ups and downs. Mainly, much of it has to do with how honest he is and how straight forward his opinion is. His...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I always get stuck in the situation. Have you been in a similar?

So this is about friends with benefits. I have a friends with benefits with a guy that just moved to my area. Anyway, after like 5 meetings, he just started to say all these things, telling me “ but what if I want more?”...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I blew up at my boyfriend for implying I’m stupid?

This is an ongoing issue that drives me crazy , I literally hate and feel so disrespected when he says he has to dumb things down for me, I don’t understand anything, basically saying I’m an idiot. It happened last night...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do cheaters always say "Im sorry I never meant to hurt you"?

This goes for men and women both. Cheaters always mean the harm they caused. They never cared in the first place. Love of anyone other than them selves is something they aren't capable of. I never understood that phrase,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend keeps threatening to break up with me?

It has happened multiple times where we fight he makes comments at the end of each fight. For example, I had suggested that we take some space for 2 or 3 days to cool off the hurt, but he says "Ill try and remember to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it normal that everything is a bit awkward when you first start dating a new person?

I am 29. Have been in a relationship for 9 years from 17-26. Now I have been 3 years not dating and just enjoying my time alone and as single. Recently I started looking again and was very lucky to have found a woman...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s your take on guys ghosting or shutting people out when they’re needing time to themselves or going through a depressive moment?

I know some guys (definitely my daughter’s dad) do this. I can respect people needing space if one on one time to get through things but, personally I don’t understand why things can’t be communicated. I like for there to...

Myamay1377

Xper 4 Age: 26

Why would he do this to me?

The guy that I had a thing with for a really long time told me he didn’t want to see me because there was no point and it would be to hard for the both of us bla bla bla. I tell him I understand his perspective and if he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

What’s something that happened in you’re past that still messes with you?

When I was young I was treated very differently I don't know if it was cause I was black but I was never really given the benefit of the doubt in many situations. I was sometimes a quiet kid when I was young especially in...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Health & Fitness

Girls, Getting a Mammogram Soon? Here are Some Tips!

Point of view: You've just celebrated the big 4-0 a few months ago but now you're standing topless in a clinical suite staring at the big machine that's about to press your girls like a panini. For the past ~27 years your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Pregnant and boyfriend has started being really mean to me. What can I do?

So I'm pregnant and about to have my baby. Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship overall and I love him. Here lately, I've been feeling really sad though. He kind of seems to attack me a lot or withhold intimacy....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend has been yelling at me during fights/disagreements, then says I'M the reason he yells. What should I do?

Me and my boyfriend had a disagreement yesterday that turned into a really heated fight because he started screaming at me. It all got started because I had a different opinion than him on something he wanted to do. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Trust issues & moving past them?

My girlfriend got with me by cheating on her boyfriend (who she didn't tell me about when we first met & began seeing each other) & when she finally did, she told me she would leave him, but this turned into 6 months of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I worry about these little lies?

I’ve always told my boyfriend about my past, including everything I did with my exes from serious stuff to silly stuff, I think it’s important that we knew everything about each other since trust is fundamental and I tell...

Anonymous

(18-24)

The guy is acting all hurt. Is it cheating?

He loved me and rejected me. He had huge ego issues as well since I rejected him really hard. Fast forward we decided to be flings. I was ok. He didn’t like me drinking, smoking or talking to other boys. He kept saying...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Food & Beverage

Should I Stop Cooking For Him?

I cook very well; I have been cooking since I was 7 years old. I often even make new recipes and try new things; He goes to work eats burgers comes home drinks a bunch of beer and the dinner is left untouched. I solely...

BlckGrl

Yoda Age: 24

What to do when you have an avoidant and anxious dynamic with a guy?

I am actually a fearful avoidant woman. I just noticed it as my dating patterns are hardly existent. If I do like someone i usually prefer those who are not attainable. I am also not consistent and often disappear on...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

My boyfriend finds me annoying. How should I deal with this?

Tonight I was talking to my boyfriend about how I plan on paying for college after I graduate, telling him how I plan on taking out loans and getting a job. But my ideas sounded jumbled because I’ve never done this before...

Anonymous

(18-24)