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To me, the idea of eating with others is far more foreign than eating alone could ever be to most people, or at least that's the vibe I'm getting.

As a kid, my father got home 2-3 hours before my mother did, leaving my brother and I to eat with my dad. My father provided for me, but that's all he did, he never helped raise me, teach me, all he did was insult, threaten and scold me and my mother at every opportunity.

My brother was the son he wanted and I'm the one he wishes he didn't have, that's how he's made me feel every day since I was born.

For this reason, I started taking food to my room to stay away from him. In school, the noise and frequent rejection from others pushed me to find a teacher willing to let me and a few others eat in a room away from the cafeteria. Even then, I never went to talk, I went because I didn't like my classmates and didn't like being around them.

I never felt welcome or belonging, only 2 people ever made me feel anything but unwanted. For all these reasons, eating alone was pretty much the only way to eat.

It has been 16 years since I sat at a table with just my parents and brother, and I will never eat with my father alone, and I'm sorry to say that I really do mean that.

In high school, I ate at the table closest to the door, I ate fast, usually just a couple minutes. I didn't talk to anyone, I just ate, took my enzymes and went to the courtyard to throw the football. I'd accepted that aside from throwing a football outside, me and others just weren't ever going to have any kind of relationship, discussion, we were never going to spend time together, so I kept to myself, and frankly, I was as annoyed with their presence as they were with mine. So the hatred was very mutual

As you've noticed, I've been more open but still, I have no shortage of hesitation to change eating from a necessary refueling of the body to a social environment.

But I'll get there. Is eating a social event for you?

The truth the Medea will never say because it caters to society not truth. People now a days want freedom to treat others the way they want, without being looked as doing any wrong. In society people want the freedom to accept and reject anyone they like without being at fault of consequences, even if it to their own kids.

Emotional abuse is now so common, because people want the freedom to raise their kids as they wish without any negative look. But with that freedom comes responsibly. But that is the problem no one takes responsibility for their actions and so much now that is looked at as normal is Infact abuse. 99.999...% of people who are LGBTQ have been abused as a child. A transgender develops because the child is rejected emotionaly do to the parents wanting a child of the other gender. This makes them grow up thinking they was supposed to be the other gender. This is why the LGBTQ community is so large now, because of emotional abuse.

If someone is rejected by their family what about society. When a mind is rejected by family it looks to society and other members in the community to find a sense of belonging and acceptance, but society is not nice to what it rejects. Society also dose not care about the person only the labels it puts on people. Is it the person who is LGBTQ fault they was abused? Dose being abused make them a bad person? Or maybe it is someone who was wrongly accused and/or charged. But society dose not care about truth only the labels they see that is put on the person by society.

So what happens when a person can not find any acceptance or feeling of belonging? Read this page (psychologicalscience. org/news/releases/social-acceptance-and-rejection-the-sweet-and-bitter. html)

What happened in Tumbler Ridge BC was nothing less then society rejecting and isolating someone who was not accepted by their own family. This made the person to suffer as they seen all others being accepted, they could not take it any more then took revenge.

It's no secret that most modern women still expect men to pay the bill when on a date, despite claiming they oppose traditional gender roles. They justify it by saying whoever asked the other out on a date is obligated to pay. How convenient that is when women also expect men to approach and ask women out, again while ostensibly being against traditional gender roles.

At the end of the day, the thanks men get for taking the initiative and risking rejection is that they will have to pay for everything, too.

Hypocritical much?

“We’d save ourselves an enormous amount of trouble in the future if we’d agree to a simple litmus test: Immediately disregard anyone in the business of selling a vision who proudly proclaims they hate reading,” Thomas Chatterton Williams wrote in 2023: https://theatln.tc/NurNyyzj