Search Results: what makes a good relationship

Ask out my (23m) girl friend (23f) of 5 years?

As in a girl who is my friend. Here's kind of the situation. We met on a religious retreat when we were in high school. Then we shared a class during freshman year in college. We both went through toxic relationships...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

LDR do I end it?

I met my girlfriend in college and we started a relationship 4 to 5 months before her going back home after graduating, I went to her graduation and met her whole family despite some being prejudice. She’s doing a gap...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it possible for my girlfriend to ONLY be attracted to me?

My girlfriend claims to literally only be attracted to me. She doesn't even find celebrities or random people in public attractive. She only fantasizes about me and no one else when masturbating. This would ordinarily be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

What do I do if the communication in my LDR decreases?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I move on or hope?

After a good relationship, J suddenly ended things, citing personal issues and a desire to protect me. I'm torn between moving on and waiting for his next message. His breakup message was contradictory, expressing love...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I give my (ex) boyfriend a chance?

Me and my boyfriend (20 and 21) had been toghether for 6 months. We rushed into a relationship and shit became bad with lots of miscommunication and misunderstandings. He meant good for me but his methods were real bad....

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Relationships

My crush is about to start a relationship with her ex. What to do?

My crush, which is also a work colleague with whom I am very very good and close friends is about to start a relationship with her ex. I am male, she is female. While we were talking over time, she told me that she liked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How much harder does being picky make dating?

I’m determined to get into a relationship by the end of the year. I feel confident in my ability to be a good partner and sustain my own life while being in a relationship. However, I’m very picky. I like a specific type...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Getting over a toxic relationship you didn’t want to leave?

I finally broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months after months of what I’d now actually accept was emotional abuse. My boyfriend even if he doesn’t want to accept it, manipulated me, disrespected and didn’t value me, tried...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Guy's Behavior

Am I overthinking this?

My baby daddy and I haven't been together in 7 years. He told me recently that he still cares about me and loves. That he wants to get back together. I told him I'm not ready for a relationship. I haven't been in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why would a man reject a woman for being “out of his league” ?

Look. If someone has all these options and she (or he for the ladies) chooses you…. That must mean they genuinely want you. If all you want to do is date down the women choosing you may be choosing you because you’re the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What would you make of this situation?

A couple of weeks ago I overheard my boss chatting with some coworkers. The office was all quiet and you couldn't help hear it. She was talking about her husband and they had some argument and it got real bad. Didn't talk...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What do you think of trivial or white lies in a relationship?

For instance you had the worst and most stress day at work, your partner asked you and you tell them your day was a bit stressful but ok overall. You don't elaborate too much details nor tell them the truth about having a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is he saving me for later?

I started liking this new guy at work about a month or 2 ago I was staring at him a lot while we were working and he stared back. I was too scared to approach him, so I just never went up to him and forgot about it. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I have a problem rejecting guys who have everything I want. How do you know when it's too good to be true?

I've rejected a good amount of good looking, funny, well off, guys looking to pursue me. I reject them because I assume they have too many options and are playing me. Once they get into relationships I get to see they...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

What do you think about being in a relationship and not seeing you boyfriend for 2 weeks?

This is not my relationship but my best friend. They have been dating for over a year and recently she says that even though her boyfriend calls her every day that it's not enough and he doesn't make the effort to see her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do you agree with me?

So I know this dude that I've been talking to for 2 years now and has already confronted me with his feelings and so did I, but I did tell him not to make anything official as I'm not yet ready to be in a relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Texts when it's only convenient for him?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Boyfriend refuses to delete embarrassing footage of me?

This is going to make me look like a total weirdo but I promise it was all in harmless fun 😂😂 So my boyfriend and I decided mutually to make a video doing intimate stuff together and just keeping it for ourselves...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I wish I had my brother's mom?

We have the same mom, but of course she likes him more. I'm at this point again when i envy every good/normal mother daughter relationship. Moms be genuinely loving their daughters bro they think highly of them, they...

Anonymous

(25-29)