Search Results: could he be cheating on me

How can I get over my obsession with my husband co worker?

I constantly accuse him of cheating on me, comparing her to me, and whatever wild sex she can possibly give him. She's fat, ugly, married, and just worthless trash.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Can you name the country?

Inspired, of course, by @AviatorTom: Can you name a country whose name, in English, contain all five vowels? (Without cheating!)

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

Relationships

Friends with benefits calling me baby?

My story is a bit complex, but hear me out. I (32) male been seeing (44) female for over 1 1/2 years. Our situation has taken a lot of twist and turns, so I'd appreciate some feedback. She is a widow, 2 teenage kids,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Dilema! Relationship or casuals?

I know on the surface it sounds simple. I been moaning about wanting a relationship for a year. I've been having fun casual relationships with younger guys. They are fun but sometimes lacks consistency and I get moments...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Dating

How can a boy cheat on a girl who stood up for him when everyone are against him and who always made him as her priority even when he mistreated her?

He was the one who started love with her, lied to her many times, she believed in his lies. He still flirted with other girls right in front of her while he claimed that he love her. She forgiven many of his mistakes and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Tall women when are you going to realize that limiting height can cause you to miss out on a great guy?

You ladies 5’8 and over need to understand that not all men are 6ft and over and there’s little percentage of men over 6ft +. Stop rejecting guys or turning down meeting guys just because they’re shorter than you. Y’all...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Doesn't agreeing to an exclusive or monogamous relationship necessarily mean you are giving up the chance to have other experiences?

When I began college, I wanted to be a music major. My choices were performance/piano or conducting. My parents were against those choices, so I was "steered" into a safer direction and eventually became a lawyer. I love...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Dating

Is this cheating or otherwise suspicious or am I just overthinking/overreacting?

I can't believe I'm even typing this, but I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me. I don't suspect anything physical yet, but I do suspect emotional cheating in the sense I feel like he is lying about being in touch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Tik Tok users, I need some help! Would this be suspicious or mean my boyfriend could be cheating?

I am a little concerned here. My boyfriend had me get his phone for him (doesn't have it locked). When I did, I saw a notification from Tik Tok (he is freaking addicted to that and always on it). That in itself wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Women do cheat according a take article I see here?

Also not to mention a dating coach who is female even said men are more loyal than women. Men do cheat, mostly cause their woman is stubborn wish washy. I think that’s ok for men to have sex outside of a relationship. but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How do I overcome the jealousy I have towards my partners ex wife?

Guys I know I’m crazy but I’m so insecure and worried I don’t know why I act like this to be honest. My partner is 41 I’m (soon to be) 25, he’s been married before and is currently getting a divorce because his ex is a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

I had to live with my ex girlfriend and his boyfriend cuz neither both of us has no place to go?

since August 2024 my life been hell.. my girlfriend cheated on me with this backstabber. i broke up with her but can't broke up with the house. my family and relatives lives in miles away and im working around this city....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

If I don't have any guilt (none) for cheating nor other things, is something wrong with me?

I'll be turning 17 on Feb and have already cheated (by kissing someone else) on a HS boyfriend. It lead to a break-up but I didn't really care. Here is the issue; I really don't feel bad about it. I don't feel good nor...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

My boyfriend (M36) is always suspicious of me (F36) all the time. How do I make him feel more secure?

My boyfriend thinks I'm always up to something. We have been together for 2 years. He is a 2.5 hour drive away. I drive to him nearly every weekend unless he tells me not to as he has plans/when I have a family...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How should I handle this with a lady I just started talking to and met the other day?

I started talking to this one lady off Facebook Dating a few weeks ago and I met her in person 2 days ago, at the time of this writing. I asked her out, and while she said yes and I did meet her, she considered it more of...

tstarr17

Xper 6 Age: 33

Religion & Spirituality

How often do you get gut feelings and do you think it could direct you into the right life for yourself?

I had an instinct telling me not to post any personal information on Facebook and not to interact with anybody on there in any real way so for years I would barely post anything on that site. Then my cousin's Facebook got...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Dating

Why is he doing that?

friends with benefits to friends hus seeing someone new but texting everyday I met a guy we started as friends with benefits we used to talk daily, sometimes hang out or do the deeds, i happened to come back to my place...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Are men more insecure when the woman they are dating/married to makes more money then them or vice versa?

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

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Relationships

Can a relationship survive after one partner has cheated? Why or why not?

carolyn_wood

Xper 2 Age: 38

Dating

AITA? For calling my boyfriend a bum?

Basically AITA? boyfriend who doesn't work or contribute anything to the household constantly accuse me of cheating and now let's his "street mom" move in with us and meanwhile I am the only one with income paying for...

Anonymous

(30-35)