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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
Why did this girl in the gym changing rooms approach me and ask me if I got any unwanted male attention?
I am female was at the gym the other day and then I went for a swim. I noticed that this girl was standing near me and lingering around whilst I was in the spa area after my swim. Then when I was in the changing rooms...
LLIEGE2939
Xper 2 Age: 34 Girls, is it true that the guy should give minimal effort and the girl should chase him?
I often hear women and girls get turned off when a man or guy admits his feelings to her or pursues her. I guess the rule of thumb is, guys and men should NOT pursue females and a female should pursue him. Now when I say...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are older guys approaching me more than guys my own age group?
Please do you have any idea how I can attract a slightly younger guy. I am 25 and I keep on getting asked out by guys who in their 40’s. How can I get someone who is near my age group. I don’t mind 10-12 years old. But...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, if a guy sees you in public - mall, grocery store, school - how can he approach you without you thinking he's a creep?
I am retired from the dating game so I am not asking because of personal interest. If a guy sees you in a public place, and he thinks you are cute, and he is interested in meeting you, are there any ways he can approach...
u Why I don't get approached by men in real life?
Like the guys from my real life find me on Instagram and only talk from there LMAO and say they were shy and thought i had a boyfriend lol Not to mention many dudes just stare and that's all they don't ever talk to me I...
CoolCatMar1
Yoda Age: 22 Should I follow him?
So me and this guy at my apartment are always outside at the same time walking our dogs and I noticed he was always staring at me so long story short one day I went up to him and I introduce myself because i find him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I follow him on insta?
So me and this guy at my apartment are always outside at the same time walking our dogs and I noticed he was always staring at me so long story short one day I went up to him and I introduce myself because i find him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do men really wait for women to make the first move. If she does, is she viewed as thirsty?
i really like this guy and i want to get to know him. But im scared if i initiate conversation I’ll be seen as thirsty. I dont want to force it. I see him a few times a month. We’ve had small interactions but I’m wanting...
Autumnfall27
Xper 2 Age: 29 Girls, If you really wanted to hook up with a guy and he originally asked you out on a traditional date would you rather have him just ask you over?
So I’ve been chatting up a girl I met online for 2 weeks. She’s real and verified. We talked on the phone and everything matches up. I was teasing, funny and flirty in my messaging but never brought up sex. She also...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I give up looking for a girlfriend?
I got rejected 13 times in a row approaching girls. I never was rude either when i got rejected. I say to the girls,”excuse me, i thought you were pretty, is it fine if i get your number. All of them either said,...
Anonymous
(18-24) If I only get approached by unattractive men means I’m ugly?
I always get the attractive guy I like but at some point they tell me my attitude is cold, try to play with me, or used me as a trophy to show me off. My ex husband of ten years who still won’t let me go is attractive. My...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it bad that the guy I met is shorter than me?
So I’ve always had this mindset that I need a guy that’s taller than me. I am 5’11” in a half. I only want men taller than me. My friends said I need to get rid of that mindset of needing a man taller than me and give...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it common for beautiful women to scare guys away?
I used to be fat and ordinary. Now I’ve lost 13 kilos and I’ve become beautiful. I’m noticing a lot of cute guys that I want to talk to start ignoring me after swiping right on me on dating sites and saying hello....
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I not attractive enough for dating? If so, how can I improve my appearance?
I am a 29 year old Asian guy. I'm 6 ft tall. I am a virgin who never had a girlfriend, mainly due to the fact that I had a health problem (that's now resolved) and I am an introvert (due to Asperger's Syndrome) This is...
Asiancel
Xper 2 Age: 32 Do some guys only have 1 chance to get it right with dating?
I just feel like I have too many things going against me to experience success in dating I’m on the autism spectrum, I have ocd, anxiety, ptsd. Like i recently came out of a relationship some questions I had posted on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it wrong that I’m attracted to white men?
Okay so I’m a black woman and I like all kinds of guys of races as long has they treat me right. My family prefer us to stick with our own race and my dad said he doesn’t want me going though racism if I date outside my...
Anonymous
(25-29) He won’t let any guys talk to me alone and we’re not even dating?
Every time he knows I’m in a room by myself and he either sees or heard that another guy is in the same room as me, he immediately has to barge in and see what’s going on. Interpreting the conversation and putting the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Serious Question: Why Do Women Quickly Lose Interest in Me? Unraveling The Mystery?
I am just an ordinary Tall, muscular guy with distinctive features like short curly hair, earrings, and tattoos who has gone through some dating trouble recently. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely...
Josh_K223
Xper 1 Age: 26 What does it mean when guys from high school/middle school message me?
I was never popular in middle school or high school so a lot of men wouldn’t talk to me there was a few times when they would make sex jokes about me but wouldn’t have a full conversation with me or hangout with me it was...
amanda_jaileen
Xper 5 Age: 28 I think my guy friend is projecting, how should I approach him about it?
So first my friend is about 2-3 years younger than me (I’m 24 he’s 21) we used to be coworkers but now we work at other jobs now. A quick little background about him, he used to be bullied and picked on a lot by girls in...
Anonymous
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