I used to be fat and ordinary. Now I’ve lost 13 kilos and I’ve become beautiful. I’m noticing a lot of cute guys that I want to talk to start ignoring me after swiping right on me on dating sites and saying hello. Wherever I go, men’s heads turn. I find it to be a lonely experience. I can’t get casual sex and I can’t get a boyfriend, because everyone’s too scared to approach me. Unless they’re desperate or married. How can I fix this?
I wouldn’t call it “scaring away”
It’s just we know the likelihood of an attractive women having a man in their life is very high.
And there are more men than not that aren’t ok with associating ourselves with women that are taken.
What makes this even worse is with social media etc. so many attractive females that are taken are secretly taken. If you look at their profiles you would never know they are taken until you happen to see them post on their story on one of the few days their man will buy them something
You can approach them. Not have soo many controversial views about things may help. Dont wear any rings (looks like marriage). Get into hobbies, dont be so up front about wanting sex. Also what guys are you approaching, maybe because you think your attractive now, you are approaching way more attractive guys.
Chillax. Maybe get off the dating apps and focus on your real life. There are so many guys out there. The world is your oyster. Go out and start approaching the guys you find attractive.
Also don't focus so much on dating but rather focus on your hobbies and a guy just might come along before you know it.
Maybe you could try meeting men other than on dating sites? To meet different guys?
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Men are not scared or intimidated by attractive women. But men are put off by women with certain personality traits or who give off a certain vibe.
Maybe develop a personality.
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