Search Results: if you ask a girl to hang out

What should I say to ask a friend out?

I met a girl in school, and have become friends with her over the past 2 years. I’ve developed a crush on her, and when we hang out in person, I get a sense that she could like me back. We hang out one on one, but I want...

Joey718

Xper 6 Age: 29

Was this a subtle rejection or a genuine excuse?

To give a little back story, she told me she’s lesbian and thinks I’m physically attractive. She doesn’t want to date and we only communicate when we want to meet up. We hung out a couple of times and hooked up on the...

Ghostwave777

Xper 2 Age: 29

Should I tell off my cheating ex?

My ex and I dated for 7 months last year. We ended our relationship in November and after the break up I went no contact for 3 months. When we were dating we hadn’t had each other on social media and in February he found...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

After making plans why does he follow up last minute?

I have a guy friend who mentions “we should hang” so i try to make plans ahead for us. I noticed a few times before and now once again, I followed up with him the night before “hey are you okay with this place? And let me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, A girl who is potentially lesbian is flirting with me? Is it even possible?

Hi everyone, I'm new here! I'm a straight guy in my mid 20s. I think I'm considered conventionally good-looking and have recieved a lot of "signals" and flirtatious comments or direct advancements from girls in the past,...

Eventhorizon23

Xper 2 Age: 29

What's the deal with this girl?

So I've been dating this girl for 2 months. We've only hung out a handful of times, and went on a short trip together. Every time was because I asked her to hang out or invited her over. She texts me almost every day,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, what should I do next, I am extremely heartbroken?

my girlfriend dumped me and I am having an extremely hard time understanding why? My ex girlfriend and I started out as close friends but as close friends when we would hang out it always felt like we had a connection...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it the right time to ask "what are we"?

This guy and I have been talking for about 2.5 months, we met end of April and have had 5 dates total (we live kind of far & his work schedule is intense) we have a great time and vibe really well when we hang out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

To message the one that got away?

I had this good guy friend for years. We met through my job, I was a bar-tender and him and his buddies used to drink in the bar every weekend. We both had the same sense of humour and hit it off immediately - let's call...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can a girl be super into you, agree to go out, ask to be your girlfriend, then become cold and distant like she never even liked you?

She doesn't even care to hang out or talk, it's like I'm just there in the background. It's so weird considering I didn't do anything wrong and she was so excited when I asked her out. I thought she was cool, but she's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are too many "girl friends" a red flag?

I have been dating a guy on and off for a year and a half. He constantly talks about other women and his ex's. He has a girl best friend I've never met and when I asked to meet her he said, "what do you want me to do,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am not has happy as I used to be and i’m noticing i’m becoming depressed?

hi everyone, i’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 years. everything was great in the beginning and now everything is going down hill. i’ve gained so much weight being with him, we don’t do anything anymore. we used to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Bi-girl question: should I move on, keep it cordial at work, or try to be friends again?

I’m super new realizing I’m bi and only has one girl crush lol. Recently I started seeing my 1st girl crush at work a lot this past week, and it made me realized I have unresolved feelings about her. Basically we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break up a week before my exams?

My boyfriend hasn't been treating me well for 4 months and I have asked him countless times to treat me better being specific and each time he's said he would and nothing changes. It got to the final straw a few days ago...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was friends with this girl and things were going so well but then all of a sudden became distant, friendzoned, and then nuked our friendship?

Was friends with this girl (I'll call her Jane) for about a year where through a misunderstanding she friend zoned me. In recent months we started hanging out regularly to the point she started opening up more and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Could this have messed it up?

Few days ago this girl gave me her number without me asking. Even texted me next day. I added her on snap. She replied to my story as well. I was at bar last night with friends, sent her snap of me drinking with friends,...

bobsmith2378

Xper 4 Age: 33

Guys, would you let your fiancé go to the beach with her girl friends and have guys there?

Hi everyone, my fiancé and i have been together for 10 years. i recently been at home all the time since i quit my job. i finish school in October so i’ll find a new job then. my fiancé works all the time and loves to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I reach out to her?

So over the course of a few years, this girl I used to work with always gave me signs she liked me (compliments, touching me, anime eyes, asking me if I think she's cute, called me pretty, etc). I've always had strong...

Wm4476

Xper 3 Age: 27