Search Results: not get feelings after sex

Why ask for nsa, get clingy and then ghost?

I don't normally hookup with people I barely know but I was lonely and sad... So I met a younger man wanting a ons or friends with benefits and agreed to an encounter. As soon as I agreed he started with the "woah, for...

NaiaDancer

Xper 5 Age: 42

Holidays

Why my "ex" text me on Christmas day?

I dated a guy for a month. We connected very deeply. We were compatible in many ways and he claimed to be a Christian and God-fearing. I never felt this way about someone. He was really kind to me. It ended because he did...

Sweetascandy1990

Xper 6 Age: 36

Need opinion on feelings am conflicted?

I met a girl a year ago. From start, I was honest and told her I wanted something serious, but it’s hard to connected. She said she wasn’t looking for anything serious but was open if it naturally turned into something....

doggyman7q

Xper 1 Age: 30

How can I start to grow interest between me and a friend to revisit the idea of dating?

We never really got to dating, I rushed things she had feelings for her last guy at the time so it wasn't going to work, but we said that we'll keep that door open as it's fair if we wanted to give it another go in the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Im so heartbroken I feel depressed what can I do?

I was with this girl for 10 years, I committed did everything I could to please her I tried to be a good partner and a loving partner for her everything was great A few years ago she stopped calling babe, being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are the reasons you wouldn't want your spouse to have friends of the opposite sex?

I have to admit, men who have female friends are unappealing to me. The dynamic between male and female friends just doesn't sit well with me, and I find it cringeworthy. As an adult, I've drawn a clear line – I won't...

marish01

Yoda Age: 36

Tell me what you think of this?

So I was talking to this guy who I have feelings for and fell in love with and he supposedly had feelings for me. But he would very often ask me out but never follow through with it, then he would say that he couldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I Feel betrayed by boyfriend after knowing he’s dedicating love songs and secretly talking to some girl in TikTok that he knows back home?

I’ve been dating this younger guy for 1 yr half he’s 30 just work permit he’s from Venezuela I’m 39. I don’t plan to stay and settle with him it’s been difficult because he’s so immature but the sex it’s out of this...

Leomar18

Xper 4 Age: 41

He ended the affair but hasn’t left completely?

I was part of a 10 year affair, we are both married. It wasn’t always sexual, and was emotional for the most part. Out of no where, he drops me. Hell tells me what we are doing is wrong, that he can’t have sex with me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I feel bad for feeling used after sex, when it was nothing serious. Also, would you kick someone out if your flatmate was coming back home?

Me and one of my friends recently hooked up with each other, we had been flirting for a while and i’d had a crush on him for ages and it finally came to a point where we agreed to just go for it as we both didn’t really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I recently had a bad break up, I still live with my ex but I really want to get out and hook up to get my mind off of it?

Long story short, I was going to propose and she broke up with me right before the proposal. She broke up with me in a pretty bad way, and it was pretty ugly. I am still living with her. I moved across the country for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he still chat and hang out without sex, after we had sex and he enjoyed it?

He seems to really enjoy chatting with me and joking around with me, and seems very relaxed like he can say what he’s really thinking and knows I’m not judging him. I get the feeling that he wants to get to know me...

KezHarris

Yoda Age: 25

He seems to really enjoy chatting with me and joking around with me, and seems very relaxed like he can say what he’s really thinking and knows I’m not judging him. I get the

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I’m 30 and scared of getting into a serious relationship because of cheating?

Throughout my 20s i messed with a lot of women who had boyfriends. I moved out when I was 20 and I was in a new city. I used dating sites on top of meeting girls in public. The girls who I met in public were usually the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Want to understand the situation?

There's a guy age 29 and a girl age 25. They met each other on the dating app. In the guy's profile, it was written that he is looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship. They had their first date at a restaurant...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Been in a weird state of flux recently with a girl I'm interested in, she was super friendly out of the blue last week now randomly cold and blunt?

When we met we were going to go with a friends with benefits situation then that evolved into us talking about dating, then she got cold feet as a previous guy re-entered the picture then left. We've kept as friends but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl i'm crushing on mentioned dating someone, not sure if it's me or not?

In short we met through a mutual friend, it was heavily flirty at first even considering a friends with benefits situation then dating after I confessed I started to like her, but she got feelings back for her old...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is totally different?

I meet him last year September, we’ve been great. We moved in together in September and that’s when we started to have this conflicts. We fight almost everyday. He said few times that he wants to break up, then when we...

Lilibet

Xper 4 Age: 30

Am I weird for this or is my friend giving me bad advice?

I’m posting this anonymously in case she’s on here. I’ve tried being straightforward about this, but I have a friend who means well, but has a tendency to butt herself into her friends dating lives. My last relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)