Search Results: not having sex in relationship

Boyfriend has sexual fantasies about girls he meets at work and still thinks about his crush from high-school, does our relationship stand a chance?

We have been together 8 years, and been through a whole lot together. We are best friends, live together, and apart from this had a great relationship. We have all the qualities you would look for in a life long...

Kas4598

Xper 2 Age: 28

Will men refuse having sex with you if you crush their ego or hurt their feelings even if they are "hot"?

GUYS HELP! So I met this guy almost a year ago and we live in different cities. We saw each other a few times, he definitely was into me, but he haven't got sexual (he tried, but I didn't want to back then). Then I wanted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex long distance boyfriend ended up blaming me for the breakup and me leaving him? Why if he pushed me to that?

I'll explain a little bit the story. He controlled entirely my life: he literally banned me from going to any celebration where males could attend, from posting pictures of myself on social media, made me erase old...

Anonymous

(25-29)

New guy, hung out twice and I’m scared I came across as too needy?

Newly single after a 9.5 year relationship. I Just met a guy a few days ago from an app, hit it off immediately. First meet up we spent 3 hours talking and 45 minutes making out. Told him I was moving in a month and...

Figuringitout90

Xper 2 Age: 35

Family & Friends

How Mothers Do Their Own Damage to Our Children

As a society we often still want to place blame on fathers or the lack of fathers for why our kids have issues or grow up to have them. And in reality that is neither fair or accurate. We forget that there is also another...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Friends with benefits being greedy?

Perspective on friends with benefits situation. I (29F) have a friends with benefits relationship with a (43M) going on over a year now. We know we both date and see other people, but we enjoy each other’s company and sex...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I go on a trip with my ex? Send helpp?

So my ex broke up with me and basically said he doesn't know why but he just doesn't love me anymore. We were together for about 8 months and the first week was hard but I realized that I put in all the effort in the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I stay in a relationship that my girlfriends sometime bring a guy home?

I have been with my girlfriend for six years, living together. We have built a nice home together. I work and sometimes she works. We have built a nice life together. I do not like coming home and find another guy in our...

0210RTT

Xper 5 Age: 55

Religion & Spirituality

Believe It Or Not, The Devil Is In ALL Of Us

Here is an unpopular fact that many Christians do not want to admit. Our entire world has been surrounded by the Devil. Yes, even in more conservative places outside of the West. The thing is, God created Satan in order...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Is it normal to want someone else when you're in a healthy relationship?

I've been in this current relationship for 2 years and it's been great but I've been missing the old version of me where I would be free to do what I want without thinking about someone's feelings. At the same time I love...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I mention to my boyfriend about this guy, something with him is off?

Before my current boyfriend, I used to have multiple sex partners by choice or one-night stands but once we started dating I said goodbye to all. A lot of my friends don't support it cause they thought I'd have a fling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would he cry about another guy flirting with me when he already cheated?

One of my boyfriends (now ex ) friends tried hitting on me a few times during our relationship. I turned him down each time. It was only three times he tried within two months. I told my boyfriend about it but he wouldn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you save or re-save your virginity with a person you love until marriage?

Many people who are not religious and who want a long term relationship think their best chance of having a long term relationship would be to save or re save their virginity with their partner that they love until...

Bellona

Xper 5 Age: 21

How do you stop thinking of a player who used you?

I remember there was this guy I was talking to. I met in 2020. We talked for a whole 6 months and our relationship went nowhere. Once we had sex, it was always sex. He made me hear what I wanted, and we went nowhere. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

She said she likes me, and wants to try if there can be something between us. Yet she told me to wait for anything serious, how should I act?

I have been dating this girl for 2 weeks, and we have been behaving like a couple, getting very intimate with each other and even ended up having sex multiple times. Lately I made it clear that I like her, and she said...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

My friend has been lying about that she’s still messing with my other friend should I be mad or no?

My friends had a previous relationship and it was going pretty well but it started to get worse, eventually they ended things badly but since I’m both their friend they would tell me stuff about their issues, I kept what...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my friend keep pressuring me into having meaningless sex with guys?

I have this friend, we date many many years ago and now are just friends. For the past year, he's been really trying to push me to have sex with other guys. At first, I thought it was because he thought I was hung up on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women giving up easy for sex?

I'm a girl so no need to get all worked up but I ve been hearing so many stories of women being dumped after the guy they were sleeping with, refused to make the friends with benefits situation to a relationship. So many...

Anonymous

(30-35)