Friends with benefits being greedy?

[Anonymous]

Perspective on friends with benefits situation. I (29F) have a friends with benefits relationship with a (43M) going on over a year now. We know we both date and see other people, but we enjoy each other’s company and sex is easy/ fun for us. We see each other when we can (or when we just don’t have plans with someone else we are dating). When we do see other we get dinner, have sex, sleepover, and the next day get brunch and then go our merry way until next time our schedules align. However, he has started to go beyond friends with benefits territory. Asking me for photos (regular and/ or nudes), who I am seeing/ dating and details, who else I am having sexual relationships with and specific personal details, and to also go away on a weekend trip with him. Not sure if he likes me more than a friends with benefits or is just being nosy about my life and greedy with the sexual aspect of our relationship (photos/nudes) for himself. Male perspective is much appreciated.

[DiamondWalnut]

Yup you said it love... he's developing feelings for you
He prolly want you for himself as a partner... but is either confused or doesn't know how to tell you

[Wise4myage]

I bet he's falling in love with you, and I hear that is common in situations like yours.

[Browneye57]

You're just a shade above a paid whore. QUIT DOING THIS.

And never send pictures you don't want posted up on the internet.

[Asker]

Appreciate that perspective. And never sent photos but he asks relentlessly. But reread my post which was asking a male perspective of why he would be nosy, asking for photos, etc. Is he getting attached/ feelings or getting possessive which could possibly turn to an unsafe situation? Thanks.

[Browneye57]

Her jerks off to them. Duh.
He asks relentlessly because he's desperate. And if you're dumb enough to oblige, he wins the game.
No upstanding real guy would do that in the first place. You're wasting your time.

[nniceguyfrofunn14]

I think you turn him on sexually and likes to see pictures of you. Does he say he is jerking off to them? He probably gets turned on hearing about your sex life with other guys as well.

[Asker]

He hasn’t said. But the internet has an infinite amount of photos of women he could use to get off from, why pester me for them.