Will men refuse having sex with you if you crush their ego or hurt their feelings even if they are "hot"?

GUYS HELP! So I met this guy almost a year ago and we live in different cities. We saw each other a few times, he definitely was into me, but he haven't got sexual (he tried, but I didn't want to back then). Then I wanted him to come with me on a trip I had to take and he wanted to tag along, but he got sick. So he invited me on a trip a few months after that (he paid and all!) on this trip we kinda had an argument and I was real harsh on him and I really crushed his ego insulting him and stuff (in my defense I was drunk and hurt) and he literally didn't say anything harsh back, he was real calm. On the way back to the hotel I put the cherry on the top and said that I always thought that he's a fuckboy who has no future and that he disgusts me and that he made me change my mind a day before, but now he disgusts me even more.. said all that in the hotel room I got hot all over him and wanted to have sex but he refused (even though he was hard) and he said he is too tired ecc I asked whether it's about what I said and he said "you said a lot, but no" this went on for a few days and I tried again to have sex with him, but he kept refusing and then he told me, that he hasn't had sex for a few months and that he wants his next sexual partner to be someone who he considers having a relationship with.. (which was kinda shocking, since that must mean that he considered me for a relationship even though he doesn't know me that well, since he went on vacation with me and paid for it all and tried to have sex the first night, which I ignored) .. I couldn't believe it, since he is quite hot and could like get anyone.. however guys I am really despe here, what happened there? Was he really considering a relationship with me and refused to have sex because of that argument or was he hurt or what happened? I really need to understand before I reveal my feelings for him.(yes in the meantime my shitty ass developed some feelings for him).. let me know what you guys think thanks xx

Will men refuse having sex with you if you crush their ego or hurt their feelings even if they are "hot"?
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