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Will men refuse having sex with you if you crush their ego or hurt their feelings even if they are "hot"? (Page 2)
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You had a decent man on your hands, unfortunately you nuked that bridge. I'd have reacted in a similar fashion with the exception of going ice cold on you after.
I know.. I regret this deeply. How can I make it up to him?
You should never drink. You killed it dead ‼️
I know damn it! How do I fix this?
Those things you said continuously resonate in one’s head. He obviously is level-headed so it is likely that he will not place himself in a position to experience that again.
If this is your Nature then you will have to find a guy who is tailored towards your outbursts. That knows it’s just a “moment” but not your heart. Are you sure this is just the alcohol?
It was obviously a little bit more than just the alcohol, he had some very weird views on certain things, very conservative and I am kind of always sticking up for the ones who got no voice and due to the fact that I am super sensitive I got hurt by the way he viewed certain things (not that he is a bad person, because he said that he can change his mind if he knows better and stuff- but I kinda made him feel like he is the bad person (oh god, just realizing this now, wow!) So with the alcohol and all I just bursted out.. I apologized the next day, but he acted as if it didn't bother him at all, although his behaviour towards me changed completely and yea he didn't want to have sex..
And, you need to find a screaming liberal like yourself do that the under surface animosity does not continue to grow. Eliminate that-like minded in politics then “you make drink again and feel free to move about the country vacationing.”
What?
He is conservative. You disagreed so I assumed liberal…excuse the unintended pun above (screaming)…screaming liberal is a phrase I grew up with. Find like political mind so that is eliminated and you can respect that man. Everything else will fall into place.
I get what you mean, but this is not the point, we should have never had this political argument in the first place, it was so stupid to get into that.. the point it to get him to talk to me again and trust me and stuff.. I don't know how to convince him
It’s not happening
You fucked up plain and simple, if i was him you’d never see or hear from me again. Although i might dry hump you in the ass just for spite, then leave.
How old are you?
Older than dirt
yes most guys will not just ask yourself this if it was done to you what would you do. Most woman would do the same.
Yea but I thought men and women are different about this
lol nooo honey, to be honest i had asked a girl out right, and after i did she literally told me that i was to ugly and flat out rejected me, and we had been friends before this by the way, so after this i was annoyed and kinda down after she said that to me and then when she wanted to still be friends, i told her to piss off because she was shallow and kind of heartless, men are different but not in this way.
yeah he probably did like you and when you were horrible to him he automatically knew he was over it, honestly it makes sense considering how you acted but nevertheless i say to move on.
But I want to make it up to him.. how can I do that? How can I make him give me another shot?
i mean you can't Make him do anything, but what you can do is apologize for how you acted and tell him how you feel and that you want to get together, it's up to him from that point whether he chooses to forgive you or not.
But will he hear me out?
maybe that's hard to say, i don't know him so i'm not sure, but of course the only thing you really can do is ask and be open who knows he might surprise you.
If he has any self respect, he would not want to have sex with you.
Well he didn't
Well he did say you can give me a blow job.. what does that count to
A blow job is about serving him. He's not giving you pleasure by having you suck his dick.
So it's about being revenge (ish)? Like you insulted me and you want to fuck, I won't give you that pleasure, even if I actually want to? Like I want to fuck, but I won't, because of what you said, this is my way of getting back to you? So it's not about him getting hurt at all?
Kind of, yeah. It's like he wants to get his pleasure from you, but doesn't want to take care of your needs in return. His feelings/ego might have been hurt, I don't want to speak to the man's thought process, but I can tell you that having you suck his dick is about making sure you feel like you're serving him.
So he is hurt and therefore didn't want to please me and get back at me?
So much at once
I don't know if he gave it that much thought, but that’s the implication
Probably subconsciously
you sound like a "Messed up" person, he is Lucky that he found out, and is keeping his distance. Who would EVER want to be with someone like you?
I am not.. I had a bad moment.. how can I make it up to him.. I care for him?
You aren't very smart, are you? I wouldn't want to fuck a woman that didn't respect me either. Go take a walk.
I told him I was sorry. How can I make it up to him? I am deeply regretting this
if a girl insulted me like that, it'd be a total turn off.
Maybe treat guys better and stop being a cunt?
Lol I am no cunt, I am deeply regretting how this went down. I just want to make it up to him.. show him that this was not me
This WAS you. You did this to him, so take responsibility.
Maybe you're not a cunt, but you were acting like one. Our behavior defines us.
You've probably ruined this with him, but you might be able to treat the next guy better.
But I want to fix this with him..
But you fucked it up. That's on you. If I were him, there is no way I would reconsider.
... I need a way
Why do you want that so bad?
Would you have sex with him if he insulted and belittled you?
Of course no, but I didn't think this got to him
Then you have your answer.. I wouldn't have sex with some who insulted and belittled me either
A guy won't have sex with you if you emasculate them.
So it's for what I said to him?
At least one reason
Go find a guy that matches your level of toxicity. And leave this guy alone. Thanks!
I am not toxic, just had a bad moment. How can I make it up to him?
men won't refuse to have sex in these situations
So? What are you saying? He just didn't want me?
Correct
But why would he go on vacation with me and pay for everything? Just doesn't make sense?
That was before you insulted him
Oh so you mean, he didn't want to get intimate after what I said? So after all what I thought before?
Yeah, that's what I meant- sorry if that was confusing
Yea it was, because you said "men won't refuse to have sex in these situations" so I understood "no matter what, if he thinks you are hot he will still fuck you no matter what" and that is what I initially thought as well, before my friends said "no girl, you hurt his feelings, guys have feelings too, it's not all about sex for them" but I am not so sure about that
I meant they usually won't refuse
And why would you do that?
Why would I do what
Why would you crush their ego or hurt their feelings?
Because I was hurt myself, I know it's the wrong approach but in that moment I wasn't myself
Well, I think you know the answer to your own Q
Not really
You know it's the wrong approach to crush their ego or hurt their feelings.
lol, specially if the guy is hot.
Yeah like I mean hot like he was horny, he had a hard one
I have.
So yeah, like women, they may.
Though some people like "angry sex" for some reason, a concept which eludes me.
What do you mean exactly?
I've refuse sex over being mad, gosh, even just disappointed and I'm not alone, it's actually quite common.
But it's also common for men and women to get turned on by being mad, for some weird reason.
Let's say my experience with women who like "angry sex" wasn't all that great.
You're ridiculous smh
Why?
That’s petty
.. yea what should I say
I won't do that, I love sex!
So why did he refuse?
He may already have had it with someone else.
Let's hope so!
Is that a yes?
what do you think?
From your perspective deff!!!