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I had an interaction with a girl at the gas station. I am wondering if anything was there or just my imagination.

I pulled in and a cute girl was pumping gas to my left. She finished as I was getting there. I did a few things and then left my vehicle. I was naturally facing her and we made eye contact. She was looking down and we caught each other's eye. She looked away quick and looked back to me quick. It was like a surprised look like I caught her attention and she was checking me out. I normally downplay any attention from girls so if I think she was checking me out it seems obvious to me that she was. I smile.

I pump gas and I'm blocked by the pump. The normal amount of time, maybe five minutes. I can't see her but she is still there. She hung around probably ten minutes longer than normal because I thought she was leaving as I pulled in. I finish pumping gas and I see from my peripheral vision that she is fidgeting with stuff in her car still. She is looking for stuff in her purse for like 8 minutes without ever accomplishing anything. It just looks like she is pretending to be busy. I get in my car and do a few things. It's time for me to leave and I am headed in her direction. I look over to see if she is going. She has her purse in her hand and is still fidgeting. When I look at her, she looks at me, immediately puts her purse down, and then we continue to look at each other. It seemed like she was pretending to be busy with her purse and immediately stopped when I looked at her. I just looked like who's going first and then left. She left right after me. Pretty anti-climactic. But it felt like there was something there. It looked like she checked me out and stayed longer than normal pretending to be busy. She then was immediately not busy and tried to make eye contact with me. But how would it have played out any different? Does it sound like it would have been alright to start a conversation with her? Was this anything or am I just imagining things?

We have been together for 2 years. She is 30 and I'm 34. I had a previous relationship in which I had sex basically twice a day or once a day and it made me feel satisfied. But in my current relationship we only have sex about once a week and it is absolutely been killing me for the past year. I have tried so hard to make it more romantic and watch a movie or go out together, give her all the space she needs and wants. But it just never really got better for longer than a few days.

I’ve tried to talk to her about it but she has such dumb excuses n lies every time. She even used to be an escort. An even bigger red flag 🚩

Even though she doesn’t want sex. She still wants to spend all her time with me. For example, she wants to go everywhere together, and cuddle n kiss each other to sleep every night. She even tells me “I love you” multiple times every hour and wants to be affectionate. She even wants me to text her regularly and keep my Snapchat location on so she can see where I am. She also gets jealous when I speak to other women.

But mostly says no when it comes to sex. I love her but I can't handle this for the rest of my life to be honest. I broke up with her before and she was really sad. I took her back and she was crazy sexually submissive, but again it was only for a few days.

We are on vacation in Chicago at the moment. We came here for her family reunion. When we come home I’m gonna get rid of her permanently. I have therapy appointments already set up to cope with the coming break up. Should I tell her the reason or just let her go?