Search Results: being mean to a guy

If you stop talking to someone do you also stop talking to all their friends?

I'm on the fence with this one bc there are guys/gals I'll stop talking to which means I also have the blessing of not talking to the annoying people who insist on being in their lives (gold diggers and other shady sorts...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Relationships

I set a boundary?

So there was this guy that liked me and he would make comments saying how if I saw him in a different state me and my mom could crash at his place he was telling me like sex jokes or talking about certain things. Got his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do guys become mean to girls?

I’ll try to keep this brief but need a man’s input. There was a guy, 4 months in with him (casual dating maybe in my opinion). We talked in hs, I didn’t want an rs but he did and we lost contact when he graduated. Years...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he feel the need to text me every day?

There's this guy I met in the hospital, became friends with him. Long story short, since I gave him my number he's CONSTANTLY texting me. Like, every morning, every night... and always asking how im doing, like several...

Shygirl977

Xper 7 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Does my crush at work like me?

I have a crush on a guy that I work with. I think we have great chemistry. We have similar interests and we work well together. We’re both introverted but I would say I’m a bit more expressive and he’s more reserved with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Should I let my guy friend live with me?

I was laying down resting and all of a sudden, my guy friend texted me and asked me if he could stay with me for a while (this happened before) and I didn’t answer until now. He asked me to call him. So I did a half hour...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Girls & guys: how might someone feel if their partner made about them in this situation?

Eg. A couple live together, the man has his friend over to watch sport on tv, his girlfriend comes away from studying in the other room to finish off dinner and dish it up and take it to him (and offer his friend some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

(27F) I feel like I can’t physically get close or intimate with a guy ever again because it’s always one sided?

I 27 F have been single for 3 years almost. I briefly dated a guy in summer of 2025 but it wasn’t that serious we mostly went on a few dates then realized we weren’t on the same page. I’ve never been the same since my ex...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Is this more lies by social media that do not reflect our actual lives?

Social media says that everybody is a 6 or 7 figure business owner with weekly trips across the ocean and lavish luxuries in life. In reality, less than 1 in 333 people become millionaires before their 40th birthday. As...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy go out of his way to downplay knowing you and make you feel less than?

This guy was nice to me in the past and I was a nobody and super quiet and he really went out of his way to make me feel like I mattered Later on I noticed he followed people around me but not me but it was cool not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Adhd or emotionally unavailable?

Guys I need your help , does any of you have adhd? and if so? does it mean you treat your girlfriend differently because of this condition? As my boyfriend gets emotionally unavailable at times and never asks me anything?...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is being on medical guardianship a turn off?

I have to be on medical guardianship due to my autism. I am very high functioning but the phycologist said I qualify for it. Which means I am not allowed to go off birth control until my mom thinks I am ready to have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Is "don't be fat" too much to ask in American dating now?

Obesity is very common now in the U. S. Some regions are more obese than others, but obesity is common wherever you go in America. It's a bit of a mess seeing the rift between confident obese girls on social media...

Adam_INTJ

Xper 7 Age: 26

Education & Career

Do you think I was being mean to one of my students for leaning a hard lesson?

Okay so we have a student that acts like a fool. He climbs in tables, he won’t sit still and he thinks it’s funny. He’s a very smart kid but so unfocused. So he kept rocking his chair, he tipped over and bumped his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys am I transphobic just bc I refused to date a man who has a past of dating a Trans woman?

English isn’t my first language, sorry if I make mistakes. I moved to Seattle about a year ago. I met a guy and we were seeing each other, everything was fine. Then I saw an old photo on his social media from a couple...

Selingrmn

Xper 1 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Should I let this TikTok creator know when I visit his restaurant?

There’s a TikTok guy I’ve watched on live for about 2 years. I’m 28, he’s 26. He doesn’t know what I look like. He uses TikTok to market himself and look for a spouse (common in our religious community). Culturally and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I’d like an outside opinion on this situation?

I started talking to a guy recently, very early stage, nothing serious. The whole conversation from the beginning was mostly jokes and light teasing. We talked on the phone a couple of times, shared basic things about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

SShould I follow up?

I matched with a guy on a dating app. The conversation was good, flirty, and engaged. He seemed genuinely interested and even talked about meeting up, like he was available and open to it. The last time we talked was Dec...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I matched with a guy on a dating app. The conversation was good, flirty, and engaged. He seemed genuinely interested and even talked about meeting up, like he was available and open to

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Holidays

Should I follow up?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What's your opinion on those girls that get married after a 2 year or less relationship?

For me, that feels well within the honeymoon phase, when everything feels great and beautiful, which means that the vast majority of fights and differences in views and opinions would show up not long after marriage, when...

Anonymous

(25-29)