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Just a disclaimer... you don't HAVE to clarify what's wrong with it, you can just vote "no" on the poll regardless, though I would prefer if you clarified. Thank you.

But anyways, okay, so I was just browsing men's fashion online, and for some reason the outfit in the attached picture just spoke to me on a spiritual level. I just found it SOOOOO cute for some reason. Usually most men's outfits either look too basic or like they're trying too hard in my opinion, but I like how the above picture is a pretty simple outfit yet looks very put together and unique at the same time.

Like it's basically just a dark gray shirt with light gray shorts, but the specific way it's styled just makes all the difference to me.

It also helps that the model himself is a total hottie who is in very good physical shape and has glowing tanned skin, but I feel this would be an excellent look for basically any man.

When I geeked out about this men's outfit to my friends, I more or less had mixed responses... about half absolutely loved it as much as me, and half felt completely indifferent to it and "had no idea what I saw as so special about this outfit."

And so I'm curious what you guys think about it. Is it a really good outfit like I'm thinking, or am I just being weird and/or delusional about this? Lol.

My fiancé and I have been together for 4 yrs-engaged for 1 yr. I moved to his home state and into the home of him and his grandma. There’s no real drama except our relationship is done it seems

Today is his birthday (12/14) and he sends me this text.

His grandma was out of the house since she was in the hospital leaving us alone almost 6 days. For once he didn’t have to keep doing everything little thing she asks him to do and he had peace for once. But I noticed he was “bored” a lot. That alarmed me since he wasn’t taking advantage of the peace and freedom he had for once.

We are in our mid 20’s and he has never had the house alone in years! So it’s weird he wouldn’t enjoy it. But I’ve come to the conclusion that he likes taking care of her EVERY single need even if he has no energy to focus on himself let alone OUR RELATIONSHIP.

Don’t think I’m jealous & inconsiderate & don’t want him taking care of his grandma, that’s what I admired about him. I work all day so by the time I get home @ 6/7pm I only get 1-2 hrs of his time and in the mix of that she’s calling him to get something else.

it’s to the point where we haven’t had any dates but our weekends consist of running errands for her. I tell him I wants dates but that’s hasn’t happened.

I tell him we need quality he shuts down and gets upset as if I’m asking for too much. The topic of getting or saving up for our own home is now contingent on his grandma’s at home nurse capabilities on taking care of her. But 2 months earlier we agreed to start saving.

Is he breaking up with me?

I'm a 23F, about to be 24, still in college. Though I've been asked out before, not by the right guys, I'd never had a first date. I never had a boyfriend. I have a specific type/look in men that I'm attracted to. But the guys I would seem interested in are either not interested in me or they are not aware of my interest in them. I'm quite quirky in appearance, personality. But I'm very smart, curious, open minded and observant (If you're curious as to why I look like, you can go to this link If I'm pretty like people tell me, how come guys don't ask me out?

I'm also usually forward when speaking with others. After a guy who I fell for didn't return his feelings, I shut out and stopped approaching guys and showing interest, in fear of rejection and just encountering the obvious. It took me months to get over him.

A lot of people in my age bracket are already in relationships, engaged or married. And it seems like they're all pretty much the same in personality, style, common interests and friends. I feel like the odd one out without any experience or proposals. I was raised in the Midwest, but I currently live in the deep south. So that might explain a lot. This not only feels odd to me, but like it's too soon for everyone to be married this young. I want to be in a relationship, but I feel like I'm too weird or quirky for men to handle or to be attracted to. Like I just turn them off right from the start of the conversation or minutes into. So I just keep quiet and too myself, unless someone interesting enough catches my eye. I don't like to waste my time with people who aren't gonna make time for me, benefit me or who I see as fake and toxic. Pretty valid, is it not? I know what I want and what I'm looking for, but I'm open for something different to me.

Could anyone give me any ideas as to why? And if you are or have been through what I'm going through, please give your story. Thank you!

So everyone...

The person I'm talking about is my classmate... that boy has started to get a bit weird... he talks to me whenever possible... helps me whenever I ask him (but he doesn't to other girls).. secretly glances at me as if I can't see him doing that... calls me brave.. asks me questions about how was my vacation (he doesn't ask other girls though)... come out of his way to talk to me.. he respects me... he copies me sometimes.. he show offs in front of me (some wild kicking and punching in the air).. he listens too well for a friend... but doesn't even look in the eye of other girl while talking to them... never goes against me.. he defended me against some girls (he never does that for any girl).. he treats me differently (very nicely)... he messages very quickly... and he never insults me.. so what do you think?