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I don’t like my girlfriends foster son.

He’s 9.

My girlfriend fosters kids with behavioral issues, & his case is progressively worsening.
I don’t like him because he doesn’t respect me as an adult, he thinks I’m a child.

He thinks he can tell his mom on me & I’ll get in trouble somehow.

He loves to Tattle Tale.
He thinks telling on everyone makes him better than everyone. He loves cracking jokes on people trying to make his mother laugh.

He cracked jokes on me for an entire care ride. My girlfriend was laughing because she could tell I was getting irritated.

He thought she was laughing at his jokes so it kept fueling the fire… If I was his age I would’ve reached back & punched him in his mouth.

I just don’t like him..

Am I wrong?

Let's put this in a scenario, (because it's something I've actually witnessed)

What would you do in an instance where you are dating someone who has been divorced in the past.

You and that significant other have a child.

You raise that child up past the age of 13.

Your significant other then comes to you and admits to you that this child you've been raising has not actually been yours, but someone's that they had an affair with without your knowledge.

But because they found religion/God and came to you and told you, they feel like you should forgive them and continue to raise the child as you had been for the past 13 years.

What would you do? Choose one of the options and/or explain your reasoning.

There’s no real reason for alarm, per se…all homicides are going down despite the uptick after Covid.

But either the media is portraying murders more- a high probability- or kids are getting smarter- which by stats they are- and are able to think of homicide earlier in age.