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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
Girls, Ladies, what advice would you give a guy on how to approach women he finds interesting enough to want to possibly date?
Long story short, I'm behind getting into the dating scene. Severe depression played a big part in making middle school and high school (save once) impossible to try to date and my attempts in college always ended with...
UmbrusNightshade
Xper 5 Age: 40 If a guy that knows I like him could be he trying to make me jealous?
He knows I like him he tried to approach me and admitted I was pretty but since then I got a new job and completely ignored him and moved on I’ve been watching his Instagram stories a lot despite not even following him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Dating apps, what is it that makes a guy attractive?
So... I'm a dude. But I thought I would make a fake tinder profile as a woman just to look at the 'top picks' section (the most liked guys on the app basically) and see who I'm competing with. To my perspective, I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why can’t I find the same kind of men as my friends?
My friends and social circle are all the same age, interests, similar careers, etc but I can’t find the same quality of men as them. They are dating every girl’s dream: successful, smart, kind, well educated, tall,...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to talk to girl next door?
So there's a cute girl that lives next to me. We've bumped into each other a few times and it's always been nice, but I would like to get to know her better. I've never been great with introductions and meeting people so...
Trevorguy
Xper 2 Age: 33 Am I lying to myself thinking I’m better off being alone?
28F, I haven’t dated someone in years & haven’t met someone from a dating app in over a yr. I’m at the point where I just don’t feel the desire to be active on them & use them kind of sporadically throughout the week. I’m...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is this guy hostile towards me for no reason?
Not dating, just mutual friend. I met a girl, and she told me she wanted to introduce me to her group of friends. Met them all, very friendly, even this guy. Hung out with them again, again great vibes. But this time the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did she want me?
Hello girls---I been dying to ask this question. My crush approached me, and she gave me signs that she liked me. For instance, she told me she noticed me playing basketball and asked if I was a break-dancer. She was...
VietKinh
Xper 2 Age: 38 Should I be his friend?
I was seeing a guy for just under a couple of months. He approached and pursued me. We hit it off. Took a weekend cabin trip with he and his friends. Had a wonderful time. He told me his friends loved me and they told me...
Anonymous
(30-35) I was always taught never approach, reach out, or, speak to a man first when you’re interested. Is that valid advice with nerdier men?
I was always thought growing up never to approach or go anything directly showing interest in a guy until he speaks to or puts himself out there first. It’s just degrading because you then look desperate and needy even if...
Anonymous
(18-24) I feel invisible next to my skinny white friends, how do I be more confident and let go of others opinions of me?
I am a 20 year old mixed (black/white) woman in a white town. I’ve always been used to being the only person of color next to my family. Since I was a kid I’ve always been the only black girl in my group of friends,...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I approach and flirt with men without them being annoyed?
I get it sometimes I get annoyed when men I’m not interested in flirt with me especially when I had a boyfriend. But it seems most of the time when I seen someone hot and I try to get his attention he always seems annoyed...
Sadie775
Xper 2 Age: 26 “Women will get creeped out when approached in public so it is better to hit them up online.” Is that true?
I was having a conversation with my friends and one guy said “women get creeped out if you hit them up in public. Unless you are a 9/10 or higher then you shouldn’t approach them because they’ll get creeped out. You...
CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS
Yoda Age: 26 
What makes a girl approach a guy ( stranger ) ?
I don't mean for hookups by the way... Is it because she finds him attractive and " safe " and he gave her the right vibes she doesn't get from most guys she meets? Is it mainly about the looks? Is it because he fits her...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it true high school guys prefer girls who are sexy?
I heard from friends they prefer girls who are sexy and that they go for girls they think are sexy. Is that true? Kind of explains why I never get approached…
Anonymous
(18-24) I don’t know who to go for when dating?
I’m sort of new into the dating world because of an improvement in my looks I don’t know how to start. I’ve been with a few guys but none of it ever worked out. I’ve been with a guy for 9 months and he cheated on me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Playing with my feelings? Will he ever approach me?
this guy and i never talked; complete strangers. i think he knows i like him (me trying to be subtle backfired) and i somehow feel he likes me back? but he's hot and cold, on and off. no physical touch before but he...
darkvibe
Xper 1 Age: 34 Guys, Awkward, or crushing?
There are a lot of questions on here that are like, 'he told me he loves me. What does this mean?' I'm trying my best not to make this that kind of question, but for all I know, it is one, and I'm an idiot. The last time...
AmyHew1tt
Xper 7 Age: 21 Will I be waiting for eternity if I wait for some girl to make the first move (19M)?
I don't have the courage to approach and ask out a girl that I don't know well. I always think of the worst case scenario when I try to imagine actually doing it, I'm afraid that'll be called a creep or a weirdo or hear...
Anonymous
(18-24) She Now Wants My Emotional Support, After Leaving Me Hanging For Another Man A Few Months Ago?
A while ago a woman approached me, pursued me, love- & sex- bombed me. It was going great, very quick start, instant rapport. She was rebounding, and struggling with depression. Her ex, who wants her back, found out about...
Anonymous
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