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Heterosexual Ladies of GAG: Here's a hypothetical man. I was told by one female user he'd be a good man. But is that true? If you were/are currently single... WOULD YOU DATE THIS GUY?

POSITIVE TRAITS:

- Very Respectful, to both you and everyone else. But will always treat you with respect.

- Has good Communication skills, both in public speaking and especially in communicating with you.

- Very Affectionate; romantic, very touchy, and compassionate towards you.

- Really Loyal; to both you and his friends and family. He's the most dependable, reliable guy around.

- Intelligent and highly resourceful. Can easily solve many life problems, as long as they're not social issues.

- Good Sense of Humor. Is witty to hysterical, depending on the time and situation.

- Ethical. An all-around 'good' person. Not a saint or angel, but does his best to be a decent human being.

NEGATIVE TRAITS:

- Short. Probably your height (5'8" or under) in shoes or shorter than you. Use your imagination.

- Average looking face. Probably a 4 or 5 in looks. Easily someone you would NOT find attractive or good looking at all!

- Broke. Only makes around $25,000 a year working full time. May or may not be in university.

- Out of shape. Use your imagination here, but I won't give specifics. Could have a Dad Bod (average-fat), could be stocky/chubby (overweight), or could be obese (290-360 pounds). Take a guess.

- Gamer. Enjoys video games. Plays games about 6 to 9 hours a week. For many, many women, a gamer is a dealbreaker.

- Lonely. Has been alone for a long time (life). Is the same age as you and born in the same year, but has never dated anyone and is currently a virgin.

- Small penis. Is less than 7 inches, but more than 3.9. Use your imagination for the maximum you'd consider "small."

SO, WOULD YOU DATE THIS MAN? (No, he's not me! Nice try.)

@Ms_Facesitter (The main inspiration for the question.)
@Passion_Devil
@Lucy68
@Starlight007
@7barbieringz

This question was taken from a response made by a 39 yr old male.

"Once you hit late 30s and beyond when even the last-minute panicky female leftovers are pairing off the power dynamic shifts 180 degrees and a man who is single and by all signs should be 'partnered away' because he is fit, trim, well-groomed, still has most of his looks, well-spoken, is working (not necessarily killing it but at least has some income), has hobbies, etc etc. He... will be met by women constantly trying to get him to settle with a leftover female: divorcee, handicapped woman, single mom, or some other similar aging female specimen.

A decent older man who maintains an air of carefree bachelorhood will be met with very hateful attitudes from women... ironically for different reasons than the hateful attitudes he experienced from them in his youth. Young, women enjoy it when the second- and third-tier males are 'put in their place' in the male pecking order as they view these guys as their fall-back options or 'plan B' if you will if they can't snag their dream man in time. They want these guys to experience a 'female drought' that would make them amenable to toe the feminine imperative of keeping an amply supply of thirsty back-up plans ready to put in the blood sweat and tears to get a taste of what the top dogs got for free.

But when those mid-level males become eligible for the 'female draft' so to speak (35+ on average) yet refuse to play the game (as it's dictated by female directives)... it pisses women off. Mightily. Especially when they see these older bachelor guys enjoy their hobbies, motorcycles, travels, etc etc, obviously relishing the single life. They'll do everything in their power to 'straighten him out' by saddling him with some aging cow to set an example to other would be mid-level male miscreants."