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I escaped an abusive relationship, but now his family won't leave me alone-how do I shut this down?

Here’s a bit of backstory: my ex and I were together for about a year, and the relationship was abusive from start to finish. He caused me serious mental and emotional damage. It was a traumatic experience in every...
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Is there ever a reason for cheating that you would consider “reasonable”?

I can think of a couple reasons that might be in the grey area but none that I would consider as a good justification for cheating. Some example: being stuck in an abusive relationship, revenge cheating, being stuck in an...
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When women break up is it common for them to blame the guy for virtually everything?

So she was verbally and physically abusive in the relationship she said I brought out the worst in her causing that; she gained weight during the relationship to the point where her mom would frequently comment about it....
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My Brother - IN LAW - is obsessed with me?

I have a half sister I was not close with growing up. when I turned 24, she had her first baby with her abusive husband, who I never met until then, he was always beating her up, cheated on her the night she had my...
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My boyfriend keeps condoms but we don't use & he verbally abusive when I find one & ask him? is he definitely cheating? is any chance he not lying?

I've found condoms about 5 times now at my boyfriend's house but he doesn't use condoms with me! When I find one and ask him where it came from, he becomes extremely verbally and emotionally abusive to me and tells me to,...
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Can incompatibility cause abuse in a relationship?

and if a girl is abusive in one relationship could she go on to another relationship and be perfectly normal. I ask because she hit me frequently and called me all sorts of horrible names
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How commonly are guys accused of bringing out the worst in a girl in an abusive relationship?

She would hit me and call me horrible names and then in the end said I caused this by bringing out the worst in her but the thing was I don’t feel like many people would have tolerated as much as I did I constantly showed...
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Is being in an abusive relationship better then being alone?

So in my previous relationship he would hit me call me names like bitch, nuisance, stupid motherfucker. But the thing is it still didn’t feel alone as a completely quiet apartment that you come home to everyday
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Should you always follow your mum’s advice?

I asked my mum if someone was hitting on me, a man and she said yes, of course he is. She then warned me that it wouldn’t be good for me to date him and that everyone’s warned me. There’s something wrong with him. He...
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What are stereotypes you don't fit?

I can think of a couple ones that I really don't fit for a South American woman. Short in height: I'm 5'7 (170 cms) so no, not all of us are short. That would be slightly taller than the average US woman at 5'4....
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What's the point of arguing and insulting others online?

Why do some people like to engage in aggressive online conversations and it goes on nonstoppable? What do they gain from that? What exactly is the point of that? I'm noticing this happens here a lot. I've reached a point...
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My ex randomly texted me?

So I’m ex and I have had a rollercoaster of a relationship it’s honestly embarrassing. He clearly has issues he was verbally and physically abusive. Both sides of our family know. He’s just a very insecure man but we...
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Was this just adding insult to injury after the relationship?

So when me and my ex girlfriend broke up I questioned why 2 years so over the 2 years she was verbally and physically abusive. I was always loving and supportive and when we were talking I told her one thing that really...
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Do you think it’s a red flag or a hint he’s a narcissist?

Long story short, a man that I’ve been casually seeing for almost 5 years recently told me he isn’t seeing anyone else. He’s told a stories about his past relationships when I spend the night with him. This is also...
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What’s wrong with me?

I am struggling to leave my abusive relationship. I feel like it's all my fault. Everyone tells me that I'm stupid for not leaving, and it seems like they don’t understand my situation. I tell myself every day that his...
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How you not be conditioned to think this wouldn’t happen again?

So I had an abusive relationship with a women end a few years back where I was called horrible names and hit in the relationship. Even her own mother acknowledged I was being mistreated but in the end people still ignored...
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Do you think it’s police corruption?

If I have a friend that lets say was in a abusive relationship. His now ex wife refused to work. Refused to help around the house and he was pretty much a single dad raising 4 kids including his wife who was pretty much a...
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Do you think she was wronged or is she playing the victim?

My friend had a workplace injury which caused him to loose his job and medical bills piled up. He was the breadwinner but obviously lost a lot of money meanwhile his wife took another higher paying job. Years went by and...
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How do you move on from someone you can never be with?

So there’s this guy I’ve had a bit of a crush on for a while now. He’s my friend of 3 years and we’re fairly close. We’re always there for eachother for ex for him I’ve helped with leaving his abusive exes (one he is...
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Do you agree with this idea I have here about dating?

That the best relationships are based on how the person treats you, not how much physical or intellectual attraction you feel for your partner because from my own life, it seems over 95% of those who marry for attraction...
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