Search Results: guy uses excuses

Is this even consider flirting for y'all?

A customer the other day came to the register and asked, "what's the lowest charge that's accepted in the card", I go "there's no minimum would you like a water that's the cheapest thing which is $3.81", she then goes...

Hellur991

Xper 5 Age: 30

What does it mean when a guy sends you a pic of himself?

He literally texted me this after 4 days of having left me on read- "Look what literally jumped into my window on my way home !" He wasn't smiling & had a dog next to him. To put more in context- he's been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating is exhausting!! why the hell doesn’t even exist to begin?

I am done with dating as a whole! I don’t even want a man at all, I am tired of looking stupid. I am tired of the lies, misconceptions, the miscommunications, misunderstandings, the dishonesty…like damn you are not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Help on this girl I like?

like this really nice girl, were in a situationship for 5 months , she expected id say something , didn't ( regret to this day ) she then started dating another guy , i being smart started avoiding her but like everytime...

syphus

Xper 1 Age: 20

Is it likely to be the same guy?

There’s this guy Fred who I used to like, who had all these excuses about being too shy to date me. I moved on, but recently I met this new guy online on a dating site Fred and I both use, going by Fred’s middle name,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what's causing you to suddenly react to your crush messages slowly?

There is this guy that i met through mutual friends. He admitted that he is having a crush on me. Lately these past few days he became slow to reply and give excuses like he always had some other things to do. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he really have a lot going on or has he just lost interest?

So I started seeing this guy around 6 months ago. Things started off really good but then I felt him getting a kind of distant. I brought it up and he said he just really had a lot going on. At first I thought he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do good men get terrible women?

Why is it that deadbeat guys get girls who make excuses after excuse for them. Some of them don’t even work their girl works 2 jobs just to keep a roof over their head so they can smoke pot and play video games. All these...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to kindly reject someone (without lying) who does one of my major deal breakers?

I went on a date with a guy. During our dates, I found that he seemed somewhat opinionated and when I told him a fact that he didn't have knowledge of, I felt that his response showed that what I said didn't make sense. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What Were School Fights Like During Your Time?

Back when I was in school fights were treated as a special occasion with a set of "rituals" that took place that everyone adhered to whenever something like this happened. I always wondered how things got this way...

Tokthr

Xper 2 Age: 27

Is this stalking and harassment?

There is this guy who has been trying to go out with me for five years and he is not giving up. I am not attracted to him in the slightest and every time he asks me to meet up I always reply with an excuse but it is...

LL2933

Xper 1 Age: 32

Other

Would they actually do this?

I keep getting messages (anonymous and direct ones) from people I know and some of those I don't. The messages are so vulgar, they keep adding me into groupchats and saying the most disgusting things about me my body...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Is he using me? He said he's getting to know me, but his dates feel very casual?

I don't expect exclusivity so soon but I've been on about 5 dates with a guy. We had sex. I didn't hear from him for a week and he unexpectedly texted. I noticed the last few dates his listening and conversational skills...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Relationships

I don't know what to do in order to heal?

So I want to start this off by saying English is not my first language so excuse my poor grammar! During all my school years since like 4th grade I have been best friends with the most amazing, beautiful and out going...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ten double standards that most men are just sick of when it comes to male and female relationships.

10 - When women post revealing photos for attention she's confident but when a man interacts with those photos he's cheating or at the very least he's just not as loyal. This is an annoying one. The same woman who posts...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Hey guys I have a question about my relationship and I need some advice?

Hi I know it's personal I got into another relationship after I broke up with my ex and got some time to rest before I got into another one. I been dating girls a lot the past 4 years and the trauma is hard to cope with...

MrUsername123

Xper 4 Age: 32

Why are people rude when they’re drunk?

I work in cleaning. I get paid to do cleaning around a casino in the city. I work overnights and the casino night life is like a club. You have people drinking and doing and saying anything. I’m use to them throwing up in...

DeJjjj

Xper 3 Age: 27