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When people have recently been through the break up of a romantic relationship, I frequently hear one of them say, "I just need us to talk one more time so I can get closure." Often, I'm not sure that they really know what this "closure" thing is, and it just sounds like an excuse to postpone the inevitable.

Have you ever said that you needed closure after a break up? If so, what does closure mean to you? And just how important is it. . . really?

I mean we tend to be programmed like that, and there is nothing we can do about it really. It sucks because either you stay single and feel that there is something missing, or you find a girl and you probably are going to face a myriad of problems (money based mostly), and there is always the risk of a heartbreak.

Just think of Elvis for instance Pricilla left him, and it caused him much emotional distress (and money!). You Were Always on My Mind was surely written for her.

It goes to show how cruel is nature. It does not care about us as individuals, but rather nature treats us as a medium of its continuity.